By Not Engaged - 06/03/2015 23:30 - United Kingdom - Stourbridge

Today, my long-term boyfriend said that if we ever finally get married, his ex-girlfriend will definitely have to be a bridesmaid. FML
I agree, your life sucks 34 543
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Same thing different taste

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I take it you're not getting married then

Tell him that that's fine, as long as you can find another groom

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I honestly see no problem with it. It's just a request, not only that but he could be really close with her. The OP could also compromise and have an ex that she's close with as a groomsman.

Some people get along fine with their exes, and don't hate them. Maybe you should just accept that?

I wouldn't have a problem with it if my bf wanted his ex that he was close friends with in our wedding. Why should you say no? I'm not awkward at all when it comes to exes. I would be upset if my ex who's my best guy friend didn't invite me. Sure, not a bridesmaid if you're not close with her, but a grooms woman is perfectly acceptable.

chefnoel22 11
baxwar 15

That could be an attempt to say a big **** you to her by making her watch him get married.

I thought picking the bridesmaids was your job? After all, aren't the bridesmaids supposed to be the bride's close friends/female family members, and the groomsmen supposed to be the groom's close friends/male family members?

I'm hoping you've decided to be a bridesmaid at his wedding.

''If we ever get married I want it to be the most awkward, painful and humiliating process it can be for you.'' .... Is he right in the head?? He can't possibly be! FYL, OP.

Well, at least he wants to marry u... haha. Maybe it won't be as bad as you think!