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Anonymous - 06/03/2021 16:58

Today, I'm living with my now ex-girlfriend of 9 years in the house we bought together. What's worse than that is the fact that 2 weeks before she told me she was unhappy and ended it, I had bought an engagement ring. I didn't get the chance to ask, and had to return the ring. FML
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Seeya55 31

I'm sorry it turned out that way. You dodged a bullet, no more split of assets or alimony. You got the money back from the ring, and you weren't tied to someone who changed their mind after the fact.

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Chazzster 29

I am sorry for both of you, this is a difficult situation. At least you could return the ring. But now there is the matter of the jointly owned house... This can happen anytime, but this past year has tended to put extra stress on relationships and families with more forced togetherness and less time with friends.

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Seeya55 31

I'm sorry it turned out that way. You dodged a bullet, no more split of assets or alimony. You got the money back from the ring, and you weren't tied to someone who changed their mind after the fact.

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Chazzster 29

I am sorry for both of you, this is a difficult situation. At least you could return the ring. But now there is the matter of the jointly owned house... This can happen anytime, but this past year has tended to put extra stress on relationships and families with more forced togetherness and less time with friends.

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Bogrbon 27

After 9 years of waiting, it’s probably your fault for being unwilling to commit, or there were fundamental issues keeping you from committing and you probably shouldn’t my have used engagement as a tool to try and spark life back into a dying relationship.

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rainbowdonnareed 18

Who gets the house? Do you have kids? Joint bank account? And why did you wait NINE years?

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phybreawptic 13

Ex girlfriend of 9 years,

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