She deliberately sabotaged your efforts in getting a job. It can only go down hill from there. If this doesn’t scream major red flag vibes I don’t know what does.

she is a narcissistic drama queen who has no respect for you. big red flag.

If this is a repeating pattern of behaviour then you might want to sit down with a professional and completely re-evaluate this relationship.

If it was a girlfriend I’d say kick her out - That’s sabotage, either intentional or just stupid… With it being your wife, the real situation is more complex. If this is part of a pattern of her being an inconsiderate drama queen or sabotage of your career, then you need to take action - At least get professional counseling or in the worst case see a lawyer so you understand your options. BTW - It’s possible that your wife is jealous of your time and attention and this little “stunt” was a stupidly immature way to attempt to prove that she’s more important than your interview or job.