Love Communication Breakdown

Communication Breakdown

loling - 25/02/2010 09:37 - United Kingdom

Today, I found out a guy I had a thing with a while back thinks I am obsessed with him. This is because when he said that we should be friends, I stupidly thought he was being sincere and bothered to call him all of three times in the last five months. Clearly a sign of obsession. FML

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alissa_roar - 18/04/2011 17:54 - United States

Today, my boyfriend of two years told me I was being too obsessive. This is the guy who has gone through my phone two separate times and deleted all of my male contacts. FML

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EmDa - 21/04/2011 14:44 - India

Today, I ran into a guy who I was completely in love with for months. After a couple of minutes, I realised he totally bores me senseless. What a waste of four months obsessing over that shithead. FML

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Anonymous - 06/04/2014 18:09 - United States - Lakeland

Today, I found out that my three closest online friends are the same person: my obsessive ex. I met all three before he and I even started dating. FML

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Anonymous - 19/10/2012 02:49 - Canada - Regina

Today, after being totally in love with a guy since middle school, I finally had enough self confidence to go and talk to him. Turns out he's boring as fuck. I obsessed over this guy for nearly 4 years. FML

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Anonymous - 01/08/2024 22:00 - Mongolia - Ulan Bator

Today, I'm literally obsessed with one boy. I've been crushing on him for more than a year now and yet he still decided to reject me. I have been rejected like four times by now, so I don't think this is love anymore, it's definitely more like a obsession or something. I've lost so many people just because of him. FML

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kitkat3308 - 27/09/2013 06:20 - United States

Today, I found out that my controlling, verbally abusive ex-boyfriend from nearly four years ago is still obsessed with me. Apparently, he's told everyone back home that he and I are getting married as soon as I finish college. We haven't spoken in over two years. FML

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Anonymous - 25/03/2022 08:00 - United States - Chattanooga

Today, I found out that my husband’s friend has been secretly obsessed with me for months, and was even writing poems about me and reciting them to people. I’m scared to find out anything else. It's so creepy. FML

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akvan - 06/09/2022 03:00 - Canada - Toronto

Today, I'm obsessing over finding out anything about my ex. A month ago, I finally deleted his number from my phone, but if I'd known it would just make me start obsessing over him again, then I wouldn't have deleted it. FML

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Anonymous - 03/05/2024 17:00 - United States

Today, as I recently starting having a huge crush on this one guy, my friend told me she told him about the crush, and that he reacted positively. I made a move, only to find out he has a partner. I've tried distancing myself to get over him but he befriended all my friends and is now in our group chat, and the crush has only intensified. FML

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Riahhh - 15/12/2024 18:00 - United States - Miami

Today, I made my relationship with my boyfriend official. The guy who I liked, who'd ultimately friendzoned me, leaving me to find someone who would reciprocate my feelings, got irrationally angry at me. Didn’t he tell me just six months ago that we were “just friends”? Yeah, I'm confused too. FML

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Thursday 25 February 2010 16:06

jesus. get off his balls girl.

smashleighfig 0

Thursday 25 February 2010 16:15

shes not whining, shes laughing at him over it. Read the name, 'loling'. FYL because the dudes a moron, ha

aback 4

Thursday 25 February 2010 16:31

He sounds like the nervous sort.

eat_this_buddie 5

Thursday 25 February 2010 16:32

forget him. lose his number and keep on going with your day

aardvarkish 16

Thursday 25 February 2010 16:38

he shows symptoms of megalomania

lilubird 0

Thursday 25 February 2010 16:38

I bet he smells. js

LittleGigiK 0

Thursday 25 February 2010 16:53

Welcome to the confusing and annoying side of dating!!!

in_wonderland 1

Thursday 25 February 2010 16:54

men are stupid.

rgcainmd 3

Thursday 25 February 2010 17:16

You should casually mention on Facebook that you wish he would stop walking by your house several times a day, and see how HE likes people thinking he's a stalker...

escualida 0

Thursday 25 February 2010 17:39

this

jayjaysmokerson 0

Thursday 25 February 2010 21:13

hahaha yes!!!!

GhoStedar 0

Thursday 25 February 2010 17:21

Who cares what he thinks? Did what he thinks break something or actually affect how you live your life?

imdeborah 0

Thursday 25 February 2010 17:24

what an asshole. I hate when people pull shit like that. hahaha the people that are trying to look for stupid reasons to blame the OP (guys), shut the **** up. some guys are douches, get over it. :)

astro2 0

Thursday 25 February 2010 17:24

explain to him why his retarded and a ego maniac for that following reason (i.e you only called a few times in a month), then tell him that you're removing EVERYTHING that's related to him, from his email addy to FB (if you got one) and phone number off your phone and internet. Tell him if he tries to contact you you'll call the cops. You can't be more blunt then that, the message of "I AM NOT INTERESTED OR OBSESSED BY YOU SO GET LOST" should get through.

escualida 0

Thursday 25 February 2010 17:47

I actually think this is a little over the top and might have the opposite effect of making her look like she's trying TOO hard to make it seem she's not obsessed. She should be more subtle than this, or just ignore him until he finds something else to entertain himself with.