Can't help myself

NotLearning - 18/01/2023 14:00

Today, I agreed to help a "friend" again, after only finding out yesterday she'd been lying to me. FML
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Not saying this to be mean but as genuine advice: you definitely, 100% need to learn to stand up for yourself. If you can’t learn to respect yourself enough to not put up with stuff like this, how do you expect her to respect your boundaries?

you DO NOT need a friend like that. she'll never change. as long as she can keep using you, she will. so being so nice. it's okay to say no. she would say no to you.

Not saying this to be mean but as genuine advice: you definitely, 100% need to learn to stand up for yourself. If you can’t learn to respect yourself enough to not put up with stuff like this, how do you expect her to respect your boundaries?

you DO NOT need a friend like that. she'll never change. as long as she can keep using you, she will. so being so nice. it's okay to say no. she would say no to you.