The golden child
By Gone - 16/08/2026 20:00 - United States - Richmond
By Gone - 16/08/2026 20:00 - United States - Richmond
That's very nearly a deal breaker. Her child does not get a vote on this. This isn't compromise, it's a binary decision and she's reneging.
Definitely a dealbreaker for her to make a decision like that without even discussing it with you. Time to move on.
Has she also ended any of your friendships/interfered with family relationships? Does she usually browbeat you with a brick when you get upset that she's making decisions without any input from you? Does she always minimise/dismiss and treat your feelings and opinions like an annoying inconvenience? Has she taken control of all the money? If the answer is yes to two or more of these questions then you need to find a therapist to help you figure out what YOU want to do.
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Definitely a dealbreaker for her to make a decision like that without even discussing it with you. Time to move on.
That's very nearly a deal breaker. Her child does not get a vote on this. This isn't compromise, it's a binary decision and she's reneging.