Either you have a “type” that you tend to date and have sex with that isn’t really working for you or you are not very good at sex yourself… The thing in common with your latest unfulfilling experiences is you. Good sex comes from attitude, equipment, and skill. Skill can be learned if you pay attention to what works for you AND your partner and listen to both your partner and your body. Attitude is a state of mind - Everyone responds better to someone who wants to be with them. The equipment I am referring to is your body. There’s a limited capability to improve on the equipment you are born with, at least in the short term. But skill and attitude can be improved. Finally, real sex isn’t really like the **** videos. Women rarely get to ****** as quickly or as easily as a man - But on the other hand a female ****** can sometimes last longer than a man’s ******. And the great majority of male/female **** is usually created for the enjoyment of its mostly male audience.

If you're faking enjoyment then it's hardly surprising that he thought he did his job.

There aren't many men who are good at sex. Either buy a toy and use during sex, or skip the guys completely.

Oh, that's a bad sign. If you were hot, guys would finish quickly and they'd be out too fast.