Everyone can be a 7

By Langer - 31/03/2026 12:00

Today, I realized how fucked up the dating world is when I noticed girls wanting to be all over me once I lost 65 pounds. This girl who put me in the friendzone three years ago is now wanting to latch onto me. It makes me want to not try because apparently, love is conditional. I quit. FML
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DLBL 20

You just now figured that out. Girls know this from 5th grade.

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copalolita 14

Yeah unfortunately people are shallow pricks. People wanna overlook you and then spin the block when you have a glow up. Finding someone who isn’t a superficial jerk is like finding a needle in a haystack. Don’t quit. You’ll find someone who appreciates you inside and out and not your looks.

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catalysty 21

unfortunately for many people, physical attraction comes first and if they arent attracted to you, they arent interested in being more than friends.

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copalolita 14

So whats gonnna happen if your SO gets in an accident and becomes disfigured? You’re gonna leave them?

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catalysty 21

i said attraction comes first - not if physical attraction fades, so does love. People dont agree to date people they arent attracted to for the most part. Once love develops in the relationship physical attraction can become secondary because you become more attracted to who they are than what they look like.

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copalolita 14

So basically judge a book by its cover. If people’s attraction is on physical appearance, they could overlook someone who could actually be good for them which is self sabotage. People are more than their physical appearance. That said, if you only noticed someone for their looks and not their personality your relationship wont go very far. Especially not when looks fade over time.

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SAgirl 17

So what you are saying is that you are upset because girl think you look better?

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DLBL 20

You just now figured that out. Girls know this from 5th grade.

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copalolita 14

Yeah unfortunately people are shallow pricks. People wanna overlook you and then spin the block when you have a glow up. Finding someone who isn’t a superficial jerk is like finding a needle in a haystack. Don’t quit. You’ll find someone who appreciates you inside and out and not your looks.

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JasonThorn 20

One. "Love at first sight" uses one sense of the human body. SIGHT. Two. There is ALSO the chance that they thought you had no interest in improvement until you lost the weight. The unfortunate truth is that much of the time, being successful in dating means becoming someone people want to date. (Note: this usually means someone making the effort to improve themselves in at least one way.)

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GoogieWithers 23

Women go through this all the time. If they lose weight, wear make-up or start to look after themselves they get more attention. At school girls are judged by their physical appearance rather than who they are. Have you realised that now you have lost some weight, you are probably happier and more confident too?

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