By MenSuck - 01/09/2009 03:56 - United States

Today, I told the guy I have been sort of dating that I want to connect emotionally before sleeping with him. He told me that he already had an emotional connection with his fiancée and was only interested in sleeping with me. FML
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Just to clear the air: 1.I'm not a ****, obviously, since I didn't sleep with the creep 2.I did not know about the girl 3.Sort of dating means: going on dates, kissing, holding hands, but not boyfriend/girlfriend (aka that weird stage when your facebook relationship status goes blank or to it's complicated) 4.Trust me, I ran very fast, and there were no obvious warning signs 5.Thanks for reading.

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mehwhateverr 0

well, when it comes to guys, basically its: handsome, mentaly stable, and single, except you can only pick 2

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I disagree about early sex. I don't see a girl as a **** just because she puts out earlier. Being interested in sex first in no way prevents me from being interested in a girl's personality...quite the contrary, it's a bit of an attention-grabber for me.

tell him to sleep with his fiancee too, then. ;)

AntiChrist7 0

don't "sort of date" assholes. YDI

buffalo_9 0

i have like this same situation except for the whole fiancee part

I agree with regalarius. I had sex with a guy after less than a week - now here we are 4 years later and married...

Hahaha. I love our (guys) honesty. :)

sexymessy 0

I agree as well.I have been with my bf for 2 1/2 years now. It really depends on the situation and the people I think.As they say there is an exception to every rule.

**** u hoe YDI, ?:378:3$/82$: Get in the kitchen ******

startafire 0

If he is already cheating on someone, why would he answer you truthfully if you ask if he has a wife/girlfriend/fiancee? Blaming the girl for a guy being a total sleeze is pretty backward. If he being sexual with her at all, he is proclaiming that he is available to her.