Help wanted

By What do I do? - 17/01/2026 09:00

Today, my husband dropped a bombshell when he served me divorce papers and a set of tests proving that our sons (7 and 9 years-old) are not his. I'm alone at home, scared shitless, and my poor kids don't understand where their dad is. I can't take them to their bio dad, since he died four years ago. FML
I agree, your life sucks 64
You deserved it 884

Same thing different taste

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Well, well, well, if it isn't the consequences of your own actions... WHY are you surprised? You cheated on him, palmed two kids off in him as his and what? Thought that you'd done it so well he'd never get suspicious? Have fun explaining that to your poor, innocent kids... ******* cheating, fraud committing moron of an arsēhole.

FluffythePink nailed it. HE dropped a bombshell? How about YOU dropping a bombshell of having him raise your kids without telling him they're not his? You deserve it, but the poor kids are innocent.

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Well, well, well, if it isn't the consequences of your own actions... WHY are you surprised? You cheated on him, palmed two kids off in him as his and what? Thought that you'd done it so well he'd never get suspicious? Have fun explaining that to your poor, innocent kids... ******* cheating, fraud committing moron of an arsēhole.

FluffythePink nailed it. HE dropped a bombshell? How about YOU dropping a bombshell of having him raise your kids without telling him they're not his? You deserve it, but the poor kids are innocent.

The kids are the worst part. They have to have their lives upended because Mom thought she was clever. I feel bad for the husband, too. He probably had quite an arc, noticing oddities, dismissing them, growing suspicious, telling himself he's crazy, deciding he has to know for sure, and having the bottom fall out of his world. He probably did nothing wrong.

Take your children to his grave, and tell them the truth. You only did this to yourself.

the lack of accountability is horrendous. you did this. ruined your children's lives and your former husband's. I hope you get everything I think you deserve.