I cannot help but feel that a marriage that has gone two years since sexual relations between spouses actually has a bigger problem than the evidence of husband’s recent infidelity. Any marriage that gets to that point is quite honestly at risk. Yes, husband should have asked for divorce from a sexless marriage instead of having sex outside the marriage. That would have been honest and understandable. And I assume that one of these two has by now probably begun divorce proceedings. But you have to be a fool to think that 2 sexless years of your marriage is anything but a ticking time bomb. To ignore that takes a special blindness.

so there were already problems if you didn't want to be intimate. why were you still in a loveless marriage after 2 years?what a waste of life.

Divorce!!!!!!

Time to say “Kiss this... (and I don’t mean on my rosy-red lips.)”

If you haven't had sex in 2 years it's no wonder he didn't acknowledge your anniversary. Isn't that a clue that things aren't good in your marriage?