He'd rather play with his "wii" than have sex with you. Ouch

Don't get between a man and his video games. [snort] And I love how when stories like these pop up, one of the first comments is 'dump him!' Wow. He's just such a terrible boyfriend for wanting to play his Wii. Dumping anyone for such a reason is idiotic, and it really shows immaturity.

Eh, just like us girls can not be in the mood, guys can be like that too. I mean, if a guy gets in gamer mode, there's no turning back.

hmmmm let's see....wii??....or sex?? I think i'd rather take the sex.

can't blame him you can pipe whenever you want wii only comes every once in a while

A lot of people are saying some pretty dumb stuff. A.) It's dumb and immature to dump someone over them wanting to play a Wii game. -Yes it is dumb, but if you were planning on spending time together and the Wii game just showed up and he sent you home? Then I would dump him for canceling plain spending time with me for a game. It just shows they don't respect you and they can't put off their game for five minutes to treat you like a human being that they are supposed to care for. I would dump. B.) Girls say no too! -Yes they do, when the guy asks, they can say yes. That does not mean it's ok for them to say - Oh wait! American Idol is on, never mind! C.)#141 -No, We're not 'programmed' to think video games are important. It's an activity we enjoy doing... And if you're a competent male with an IQ in the triple digits you wouldn't need explaining as to why that was hurtful. Also your "solution" is crafted for dealing with a goddamned 5 year old.. and if that's the kind of guys you date...well then you date some pretty stupid guys. D.)#142/147 anyone who says it's a dumb reason to dump -Sex isn't a priority, and it isn't worth dumping someone over. But in this case it wouldn't be dumping someone over sex - it's just something she happened to have wanted to do. Do you think if she wanted to have lunch with him his reaction would have been different?? No - he would have still told her to buzz off. It's not the fact that she won't be getting any. It's the fact that he's a jerk who won't spend time with his girlfriend. Also, the whole 'girls say no' a lot thing is only a stereotype because most men are like the guy in this FML. If you are actually good in bed and your girl is attracted to you, there usually isn't a problem...married or not. E.) Guys gaming -No we don't go into "Gamer Mode" unless we're like 12. If you're mature enough, you can set your priorities straight. Before you go bashing me saying "I bet you're not even a gamer", both me and my gf are avid gamers and we own an extensive line of consoles.

To:#151 I stick by my comment saying that to react and dump someone over them breaking plans is childish and immature, especially since the game (or whatever else it was that interrupts) came unexpectedly. No indication in the original postr about it being a reoccuring event, if that ws the case then I would agree that the lack of consideration and respect may make someone think twice about continuing the relationship. To me, if you are going to dump someone (of either sex) because of something like that without a discussion and repeated offense, it just speaks to your "all about me" attitude. Don't extrapolate the original post to include lunch and your psychic read that he would have blown her off for that also. Ooohh! I love how you agrue against my stereotype of women with a stereotype of men... very logical. Getting or not geting sex during a marriage/ long term relationship has very little to do about how good you are in bed or if the girl/guy is attracted to you. You can assume there was enough attraction to get married and chances are the sex was pretty good or at least good enough to do it before they got married and for a while afterwards. If you have any, talk to some older guys who have been married for a while. Check out their story of how their sex life is and was. Maybe talk to some of the guys your dad's age who have a whole life of marriage behind them. Your views seem from a fairly young person's perspective, not adolescent, but not having teenage kids either. A little life behind you changes how you see things. My experience and those of nearly all the men I'd talked to is that after a few years, and definitely after a few kids, sex and intimacy take a back burner. Other things become more immediate and important. Lack of sex gets to be more the norm and usually it is the females who are less interested. Reasearch shows it, check out Kinsey, Dr. Ruth, Dr. Phil, Sue Johanson or any couples cousellor, the list goes on and on. It's not just a stereotype, it is the typical case. Doesn't mean that there aren't reverse cases of women "wanting it all the time and their men just "don't put out" but they are in the minority. Anyway, enough from me. My suggestion is take the event in stride. If it happens again and it bothers you talk about it. Get them to understand it is important and get a change in behaviour. If you get it, great. Be willing to give it next time the shoe is on the otehr foot. If your don't, reevaluate the worth of the relationship. Maybe try again, maybe not. Life is about acceptance of others and comprimise. Maybe for him it's video games and you its Americal Idol...

what a douche bag you should do the same thing to him but say your new vibrator arrived

break up with him. i'm sick of these lame gaming guys with hot girlfriends.

you need to drop that fscker like a ROCK