By Kuu - 24/03/2009 05:46 - United States

Today, I had an excellent conversation with this guy I met on a gay dating site. We really hit it off well and had a lot in common. We got to the point where he asked me for my picture. I showed it to him and he stopped responding. FML
I agree, your life sucks 66 568
You deserved it 15 894

KuuKuso tells us more.

Original poster here. Just wanted to clear up a few things: I'm really not upset about it. It kind of got to me when it happened but I got over it pretty quickly. The only thing that upset me was the fact that I told him that if he wasn't interested, I'd still like to be friends and he completely disregarded that. Ultimately, I just wanted to make my first FML, lol. #17, #18 - He had already seen two of my pictures, but a 3rd one was slightly more revealing, and that was what did me in! #13 - Ouch! That must have been AWKWARD to say the least. :/ #12 and #15 - I don't mind if you think that way. It's a free country, we're entitled to our opinions, after all. But you know what they say... usually the loudest homophobes are closet cases themselves! ;)

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what a shallow douche, you'll find someone better. :)

anti_CROMBIE 0

It has happened to me a lot too. It's more of a good thing than you realize. Most of those guys who stop talking to you after they see your picture did not care about anything you said from the start. When you find a guy who stays after he sees your picture, keep him. Remember, looks fade, no matter what. So all those guys who ignored you? In 15 years they will be nothing more than an old used potato sack that has no one to go home to at the end of the day.

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what kind of idiots wish that gay people get relationship problems? #12, 15 are complete tards

minidinosaurgoes 9

exactly. love is love no matter to who from who as long as its not pedo love

jessiegirl 0

Yeah, gotta say...putting your pic out their first is a good way to filter out the a-holes. I know it *may* sound shallow, but attraction is multi-faceted, and physical attraction is important. I was on a dating site for awhile, and I ignored any profiles w/no pic. Find a flattering pic of yourself to put your best foot forward. You'll find someone! Best of luck.

#24 You're right... and I DID have two normal fully clothed pictures open for public viewing. It was the 3rd picture (a shirtless) that did me in that time. Woulda said that in my FML, but I was limited to so many characters.

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hey if he doesnt like you then he doesn't like you. Even if i had alot in common with someone but they were ugly i wouldnt date them

#27 - Yes, but he wouldn't even consider being friends with me since we had so much in common. That aspect got to me more than anything else. #26 - You are definitely entitled to your opinion, but I refer you to the last line of my post on #20.

That really sucks. I'm sorry. That happened to me a lot too. It's just frustrating to see that some people are only intrested in looks instead of personality. It seems that most guys are interested in looks instead of getting to know you but what can you do? People are stupid and you never know, that special someone is still out there.

Thanks to everyone for your positive thoughts. :)

cokyspaniel 0

ignore the hater. it's their loss

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