Yeah, if you're, like, 12: Your boyfriends just a normal preteen who likes older, prettier, naked women--and epic thumbs up for getting an older girl to send a pic! If you're 24: then your boyfriend is a douche that is ******* with borderline jailbait, and you should think about beating his ass senseless. HOWEVER: You really shouldn't be going through your boyfriend's stuff for any reason. Sure, the ideal relationship is that neither is hiding anything from each other, and so neither should worry about the other doing something like this--but you still can't help but blame yourself :P

Thanks for finishing my thought! I had to leave work suddenly and couldn't finish the whole comment. You did a very nice job. Kudos!

LOL ^^ Thanks! 

I don't think she necessarily did anything wrong. If my bf left his phone out, and I felt like giving him a little surprise, I might make a nude of me his background, or the photo that comes up when I call. I think it would be a cute surprise, and I know he would think so too. I do however think that this type of behaviour is time-dependant. I think you'd need to be going out for a year or so before it would be okay. so maybe a question that should be posed, that hasn't been posed, would be "how long has the OP been in this relationship?" 6 months or less, and its inappropriate. 2 years or more, or married/engaged, and I don't think there would be a problem with it. Intention is also important. If she was looking through his texts and photos for the purpose of finding something she could get mad at him for, YDI and **** you for invading privacy. If she was trying to do something sweet, or just looking for someone's phone number or something, I don't think she's at fault.

It was just an innocent thing she was trying to do. Something cutsy. what she found was horrible.

uhhh.... that sounds like a healthy relationship..........