By Anonymous - 09/10/2010 20:00 - United States
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Then surely he'll understand and appreciate the lengths that you'll go to in order to get him out of your life forever?
Agree with #1, I'm sure he'll be very grateful for the lengths that you'll go to get rid of him. Fuck your life for having that kind of man to deal with.
you don't know if he's cheating or not. it is insinuating that but still don't know. he could be faithful or cheating. for all we know the woman could be the type of girl that tells him your not allowed to look at other women and yells about it which would be way he's doing it behind her back. I'm leaning more towards cheating but we need more info before we can say he's cheating or not.
Does the post really need to directly say "He was cheating on me?" for people to understand he was cheating? When someone writes an FML about their spouse going behind their back for someone, it doesn't really mean they were completely loyal and all they did was a have a nice conversation with the man/woman they were seeing in secret. It doesn't need to be spelled out..
This is why I love FML, people get so heated about things. It's so funny when people go off on how stupid someone is after they state their opinion. Okay, so you had this kind of situation in your life as well. But tell me, why would the husband go to such lengths to hide it from his wife? Sure, OP could be the kind of person who doesn't even let her husband look at other women, but going off of what was said in this FML, I think it most defiantly implies he's cheating. And what about the part with the high school sweetheart? OP mentioned that for a reason, I'm sure. Sorry we don't see eye to eye, bur seriously man, it's nothing to get heated over.
Seeing as how I'm not the only one who thinks her husband cheated, a lotta other people here must be stupid as well? Honestly, on FML, everyone makes a great deal of assumptions, you don't get the whole story on every post, so the only thing you can do is assume. Seriously, I think you're taking this a bit too seriously. And what argument? I don't see this as any sort of argument.
That's harsh. Surely he should know that the more he hides it the more suspicious it's likely to look? I'd suggest talking to her, and seeing if you can't find out if what you think happened is true or not. It might be the case that he's trying to hide it because you'll over-react. If you are right, then its upto you, OP, where to go from there.
Tinacorbin - I didn't mean that the other girl is garanteed to tell the OP everything. However, it is possible that she will, there are many circumstances that we don't know that could determin how much the girl would tell. However, as ImaginaryFoe said, it does give another story to double check against. ImaginaryFoe - Exactly. However, it might be that the husband didn't do anything, but knew that the OP would automatically jump to conclusions whether or not he was honest about it, and tried to avoid it. It is also entirely possible the OP is right. 'Chaos - I think you mean that the FML is that he lied rather than did anything, which is possible, but we don't know that for sure.
Good heavens, sounds like my rat bastard of a husband. They honestly believe they're not in the wrong, it's amazing...