By happyturtle - 01/09/2013 09:57 - Croatia
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This is so disrespectful. They are your employers and you have a job to do.
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#1, when the job is done, it's time to have fun ;) Obviously, the kids are asleep when the show starts, and she is minding the house during the action. You can't expect a babysitter to hover over the beds of the sleeping children in a darkened room -- that'd totally creep them out.
Thank you #123. Yes, this is what I meant. When you trust one person to watch your kids you don't know the people they might bring into your house. This is why I do not trust anyone except for family to watch mine. I honestly don't see why the thumbs down but whatever.
Actually, the part about inviting people I'm not aware of into my house as the babysitter's employer is the part that offends me more than what the babysitter did if my kids were down and asleep already. No, I wouldn't want Op specifically having intercourse on my couch, but it's just as much a use of her time as sitting there and watching TV is. It's just the biggest issue for me would be if my kids are being neglected (or traumatized) while she watched TV, or fucked herself. If not, and she didn't have guests, I wouldn't care. ;p
I disagree. The only time you should have someone over there is if you had permission from your boss to do so as long as that other person understands they are not getting paid and if something went missing it was on your hands. There have been times when I accepted babysitting jobs from other people and the employer told me it was ok to bring one friend but gave me extra rules and I had to let them know when I would bring them. I usually never did but some nights I did when I knew a storm was coming or Halloween was approaching (I had a lot of fears thanks to my own family scaring the shit out of me a lot) and was a little more scared to be alone on those nights thinking some murder was gunna break in and shit. Like I said, permission is different but I wouldn't invite a boyfriend for one (even with permission) and I most certainly would not have sex while on the job at my employers house. That's rude and disrespectful.
Seriously!!! This is so messed up! When someone hires you to watch their kids, most of them expect you to watch tv or whatever after they've gone to bed. But it is a huge no-no to even invite anyone over (remember they trusted YOU alone in their house with their kids, no one else), and especially to screw on their couch! Yuck! I would throw out my couch and depending on how old you are, call your parents to let them know what a trampy tramp they have as a daughter.
They pay you to look after their child, not to have sex. That line of work involves you geting paid a much higher rate.