By PickedOnByDamien - 02/10/2013 08:12 - United States - Holyoke
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ASSERT YOURSELF. If you sit there and take it, it only makes it okay for this kid to do it to other people.
What?! You're an idiot. So simply because my mother had children meant my step-dad shouldn't have married her? That man made me into the person I am today. Just because someone has children doesn't restrict them from having a relationship, regardless of their partner's financial status or good-will. If I want to date or marry someone with children, that's my decision.
Preach! #2 :) And op Assert yourself, you can't still get to know the child by setting rules, and talking to your gf about her child. Get your stuff back bro! Its no biggie, if you put the child in check, he will know you can't be run over. This reminds me off the movie are we there yet, with the mean & mischievous that the mother needs to teach manners, and obedience! Sorry for the speech, but get your life in check, your the adult and if you marry your gf that will become your child, so assert yourself now.
You're right, 25. My friend was dating a girl with a 2 year old daughter and they fought over how she needed to be disciplined. I'd always get caught in the middle of the argument an I'd have to take her side. It's her kid, she knows what's best for her. The last thing any guy should try to do is tell a mother how to raise her kid, or that she's been raising her wrong. That is unless you're the father. I'd personally never date a girl with a kid just because I'm so young, and I shouldn't have those responsibilities yet, unless I'm stupid enough to create a mini me myself, and god help us all on that day..
Play CoD with him online, and when you're winning, say "I banged ur mom lol" Checkmate!