The friend's opinion doesn't matter. It's your boyfriend's response that does.

maybe she didnt snoop through his phone....

lucky for you it is not up to his friends to decide what he thinks of you. It is up to your boyfriend what he thinks of you. Regardless of what his friends think!

On the plus side, you won't have to worry about him hitting on you. That's good news, right?

His friend should mind his own business. Your boyfriend better have defended you or he isn't worth it

Shame OP. That’s just a downright hurtful comment. I hope your boyfriend told his friend to get stuffed.

I’m guessing that decision is up to your BF at the end of the day I’m guessing his friend is wrong

All that matters is what your boyfriend thinks. When I was with my ex husband a woman asked how I “got him” basically stating that he was out of my league, since then, I have had multiple people wonder how he “got me” because they thought I was way out of his league. Attraction is subjective, one persons hot is another persons not, so as long as he responded positively, know that that’s the most important thing.