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By Chacha69 - / Friday 8 February 2019 20:00 /
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By  Levi2411  |  37

For her to respond that quickly to another man... it's obvious her interest is in other people, and more than likely not in the platonic way. Because to me, that's a serious red flag, because I know when I'm seriously in love with someone-- I always prioritize that person over anyone else. And for her to do the opposite? OP, you deserve to feel cared about and loved. Always. I'm not telling you to dump her or get a divorce, that's a serious decision you need to come to, but I do hope you do what makes YOU happy and never settle for less. Best regards!

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By  Levi2411  |  37

For her to respond that quickly to another man... it's obvious her interest is in other people, and more than likely not in the platonic way. Because to me, that's a serious red flag, because I know when I'm seriously in love with someone-- I always prioritize that person over anyone else. And for her to do the opposite? OP, you deserve to feel cared about and loved. Always. I'm not telling you to dump her or get a divorce, that's a serious decision you need to come to, but I do hope you do what makes YOU happy and never settle for less. Best regards!

By  Miss Beep  |  8

Kt's definitely time to talk to her... I hope she's not cheating as others are suggesting but maybe she feels as if your conversations are boring or not meaningful. Maybe she doesn't feel appreciated. In any case, you need to sit and have a serious conversation with her.

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  Twiggy Smalls  |  1

After 12 years with my hubs, if I was unable to just talk to him about my feelings being some type of way, we would be done. If I took the time to basically bait him with a shady, time consuming lie of pretending to be a stranger... I know I could never forgive myself for doing something so shady and sneaky. Is never bait my husband. To automatically assume someone is cheating by responding to a wrong number, is insane.me and my husband have a rule that we have minimum communication when we're working, cause duh were working, but also, we have stuff to fill each other in with about our day. I've many times pushed a response to a text of my husband's to answer another's question, or just didn't feel like responding maybe.

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  chosha_fml  |  25

Why is everybody assuming this? Maybe she responded because she realised it was a wrong number. And he didn’t say there was anything sexual about the text. Maybe OP just texts her about boring day to day crap. She’s not a hoe because she doesn’t run after her husband every minute.

By  TheBombestOne  |  4

I think everyone is rushing to judgment considering we don't have her side of the story. OP, you should definitely request a time to discuss this with her. People have a lot of outside factors in their lives, even when in a relationship, so I wouldn't immediately go down the path that she no longer cares about you. I hope it all works out.

By  lilbiggie814  |  2

gotta just not keep giving her all this attention and see how she reacts..if nothing changes then talk. continuing to press when something is this obvious won't work

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