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By headdesk - / Wednesday 25 June 2014 05:41 / United States - Kaneohe
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While I agree she overreacted, I'd like to make a suggestion to OP. NEVER get in a car alone with this woman alone again. Also, make a note of this incident and email it to yourself. That will put a time stamp on it if you ever need it. This looks like it could be heading towards harassment charges. Or even worse. If I'm wrong, no harm done. This is a case where overreacting is not a bad thing. Harassment charges are very easy to throw around.

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overreacting for sure. she also sounds conceited. who just assumes someone wants to sleep with them? what, people cant just be nice anymore without an ulterior motive?

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Friend obligations don't automatically imply sex. If she felt pressure to return some favor, she could have gotten him a gift card. I agree with #58 if this response came out of the blue.

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Where did 'payment' come from? I said she thought he was someone else, not that she thought he wanted sex as payment. In any case, I don't really see why I have quite so many thumb downs. She said she 'still' wasn't going to have sex with him, which implies that she'd already told him she wouldn't at least once before...if OP's only spoken to her once and that issue didn't come up, then surely it's reasonable to assume she might be confusing him with someone else (most likely a co-worker that she doesn't see in person that often. Possibly even someone who actually HAS been harassing her, meaning her comment wouldn't have even been that out of line.) Obviously commenters seem to have overwhelmingly assumed she's just a total bitch, and maybe that is just the case, but does everyone really think it's completely IMPOSSIBLE that it couldn't just be a mix-up?

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