By Anonymous - 10/11/2012 02:09 - Canada - Toronto
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You're probably fine, OP. He probably wasn't checked into the conversation.
That's probably the first thing that came to your mind cause you had a feeling that was it... I'm sure you're not too shocked.
49, where in her comment did she say she was having sex? Whether or not she is having sex is unimportant right how, because your comment was just uncalled for. I agree whole-heartedly with her. Just because some sex-crazed men think sex will solve any and all problems doesn't make it true. If my fiancé is upset, I sit with him and talk, not pull off his pants.
Sometimes the truth hurts worse than anything, but at least you know now! Sorry that happened, OP!
Yes, obviously! She got herself into being shut down by her husband by trying to make a joke to ease some tension. She walked right into that one, completely. Phew, thank God someone has common sense. Seriously though, that sucks OP. If the relationship keeps going downhill, don't keep trying to run something that's dead.
I would have ask if we(they) needed counseling. Don't give easy outs by giving him a reason. Let him man up and say it himself. But as soon as you start to move on he'll be running back.
He's being childish. Sorry OP.. Sometimes, you can't joke with people when they are moody.. Best just to let them sulk in their own corner.
I'm sorry, but how many serious relationships have you had? The "best thing" isn't to let them "sulk in their own corner". You could always, you know, Talk to them? Try to comfort them? Even just sit beside them and let them know they're not alone. Actions speak louder than words, but complacency screams at the top of its lungs. And not in a good way, either.
I agree #74. There are some people you have to leave alone when they are in a bad mood. Being suffocating and asking them how they are feeling etc etc can sometimes make things worse (I would know). #57 is just making baseless assumptions on my relationship experiences so I don't listen to advice from people who assume (;