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By MaybeNextTime - / Wednesday 2 January 2019 14:00 / Australia
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By  Alup132  |  22

Maybe it’s because I’m still young and just about to turn 19, but I don’t see the big deal in why being a virgin makes anyone depressed? As long as you got love, I don’t think that it’d be too big of a deal.

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By  Alup132  |  22

Maybe it’s because I’m still young and just about to turn 19, but I don’t see the big deal in why being a virgin makes anyone depressed? As long as you got love, I don’t think that it’d be too big of a deal.

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  Callyn  |  47

Generally, if you've 'got love' you're not a virgin.

OP, your virginity isn't what is making you depressed, depression is a chemical imbalance in your brain. It's a disease, not side effect of something else. Depression lies to you, you are worthy of love and if this girl is as great as you think she will understand. Just give it another try.

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  Quasita  |  24

You're not young regarding this. You can have love and be a virgin. Not everyone bangs the people they fall for right away.
Personally, I was a virgin until I was 27 and I "fell for" at least 2 people before I had that experience. I am not a dude, and I know that it can be different for dudes, but generally speaking I knew several men and women just like me, who simply chose to wait until it felt right. Love and physical intimacy don't always feel right at the same time, and that's okay.

If anything, what happens is that people buy into social expectations and assumptions. We see jokes about the "40 year old virgin" and the personification of that person being a very unattractive and undesirable person that needs a lot of help to even get the attention.
If you keep doing you and knowing that you're more valuable than where you've been allowed to place your genitals, you'll be just fine.

By  WeirdUS  |  27

This is bs. Have you looked into the mirror as to why? You don’t get prescribed depression medication just for not having sex. Definitely other issues to consider before sex is a consideration.

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