By I Know How to Pick'em - 16/11/2015 12:25 - Canada - Beaverton
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if he is willing to keep such major secrets from you, you need to get out of the relationship.
#66: Well, these are OP's words. Maybe she just call her is "girlfriend" because she is pregnant. But anyway, thing that could defend that guy would be for him to be separated from this girl and to have been involved with OP for a few time. Becaue obviously, bringing up your past too fast in a relationship is also a nice way to make it more complicated.
OP didn’t know about her boyfriend‘s son and his pregnant girlfriend but his friends knew. There is no innocent reason for him keeping such important aspects of his life a secret from his girlfriend even though these aspects are not that much of a secret. She might think he is her boyfriend but he doesn’t treat her the same way. It rather sounds as if he sees her as a side chick.
I don't wanna be one of those people with the quick "Dump him" comments, but ...dump him
I feel sometimes FML just chips away at my faith in humanity, even though I barely had any to start with.