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By Anonymous - 12/2/2020 05:00

Chance would have it

Today, I found my ex on bumble after she told me that she needed a break from our relationship and just want to focus on herself. She also said that she is too busy to worry about anyone else but she said she is looking for a relationship on bumble. FML
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By  alycion  |  38

I need to focus on myself is like a it’s not you, it’s me thing. Most of the time she has lost interest or doesn’t see it going long term and is trying to spare feelings. She was eventually going to date again. Focus on you.

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By  alycion  |  38

I need to focus on myself is like a it’s not you, it’s me thing. Most of the time she has lost interest or doesn’t see it going long term and is trying to spare feelings. She was eventually going to date again. Focus on you.

By  rotflqtms_  |  18

I'm not sure how bumble works compared to other dating apps, but it's possible that she never changed her status in that app when she started dating you.
And as she's your ex, she's entitled to her own rights to change her mind or to decide how long she's not looking for a relationship for. It's her body and she's your ex. If she doesn't want to be in a relationship with you anymore, she doesn't have to be. You're not entitled to be with her if she changes her mind and does want to start dating again, even if it's a day after she said she doesn't want to date anyone.

Even if she did lie... would you rather her say, "I'm breaking up with you because you're a loser who is going nowhere in life, you are terrible in bed with an inability to change and your dick is too small"?
At least she didn't go about it in a spiteful way and try to hurt your feelings. At least she broke up with you rather than sneak around while still being with you. She's your ex, it's her life. You don't own her, and she makes her own decisions.

Sorry you got your feelings hurt, but at least she wasn't cheating on you. (being on bumble and all rather than actually being with someone)

By  E2dav  |  5

that's what people say when they don't want to hurt your feelings. And I assume you are moving on as well, since you were also on bumble. I know you're hurt, but she was trying not to be mean. Move on, man