By Sean Martin - 06/02/2020 05:00
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Your girlfriend told you that you never will be the (step-)father of her child, only the provider for both of them. You should think long and hard what this relationship is worth to you.
Women years ago used to tell their kids that their new boyfriend was “Uncle John” . If you’ve only been together 3 months, maybe she just doesn’t want to build the kid’s hope up? Just ask her about it!
Uhhh I don’t really remember a wide majority of people accidentally creating incest HOWEVER this child is 1, there’s no way to give or take away the child’s hope as the child hasn’t a single clue what family relationships are and would naturally make assumptions based on a 1 year olds mind.
So...? You aren‘t the biological father, therefore no need for her to tell you, you are "a great dad". I suppose that's why you're hurt...?