Today, I found out that I'm pregnant. My husband and I have been trying to have a baby for a while, and I was very excited to tell him the news. When I opened his office planning to surprise him with the news, I saw him making out with a man. FML
I agree, your life sucks (219559) - you totally deserved it (8415)
On 04/19/2009 at 12:05am - intimacy - by soontobedivorced (woman) - United States (New York)
(0)367 gay people are normal people just like you and me. There is no need to go bananas on them.
#374 - On 05/17/2010 at 10:54pm by NirveliJoy
(0)This could've been avoided if you stayed in the damn kitchen and kept making sandwiches like you were born to do!!!
#386 - On 07/05/2010 at 4:48pm by r_K3LY_pisN_0N_u
(0)#2--there is no reason to use hate words. If he was found with a black woman, would you call her the N word?
(0)o no someone who went suicide because he didn't want to tell his wife and kid
:(
not joking
#364 - On 03/30/2010 at 1:38am by ilovefatcats
(0)You poor, poor thing. If he has been hiding his attraction towards men, then it's time to let him go. If he wasn't honest about something so personal, what else has he lied about. Are you going to keep the baby? I don't think anyone with half a brain would look down on you for having an abortion because of this sudden development.
(0)are you effing kidding me? kill her baby because her husbands gay? rape is one thing - that is amoral, stupid, and effed up.
#334 - On 08/14/2009 at 8:29am by laura90cork
(0)#6 wth is wrong with you. you don't even have a brain & no she should not kill her baby just cause her husband was kissing a guy
#377 - On 06/07/2010 at 2:43am by ricanbiboy123
(-4)Too many negative votes, comment buried. Show the comment.
FYI, you open an office door, not an office... unless you're opening up a new office at a new location, etc.
And the use of a period for dramatic effect really only works if the first sentence works okay by itself, then the hang-on sentence reveals a tidbit of information that makes the whole situation different or funnier or worse. Here, the "making out" assumes there are two people involved and you just cut out the other person with your stupid period. Nobody ever says "I saw him making out." It's either "I saw THEM making out" or "I saw him making out with someone" etc. This isn't just you... it's in a lot of FMLs and I just had to get it out.
Oh well. It's ok. Your life sucks so I guess you're too devastated to be bothered with grammar and the like. Good luck with the gay husband.
#9 - On 04/19/2009 at 6:26am by turtlebots
(0)You really want to piss people off, don't you? This isn't school or something and you're not her teacher.
Anyway, I really feel sorry for you. :(
(+1)wow dude what a fag you correct peoples grammer on what is supposed to be a funny website......fuckin idiot this isn't a school
#358 - On 02/08/2010 at 1:46am by 6JackTheRipper9
(0)you must like pissing people off. and OP I'm sorry you had to find out at that point.
#363 - On 03/27/2010 at 9:09pm by imsexb3ast
(0)#5, you're just stupid. #3 was obviously pointing out the f word you mentioned to horribly describe the the situation. Asshole.
If you want me to be more specific, it was word. number. two. in. the. first. sentence. you. said. Clear enough for you?
#10 - On 04/19/2009 at 6:26am by junjouromantica
(0)haha #5 i think #3 was referring to your use of the word "fag", or in your case, "fagg".
#11 - On 04/19/2009 at 6:26am by nom_nom_nom
(0)#2, I don't think it was your use of the F word that they were objecting to. Educate yourself before you open your mouth and judge others.
#12 - On 04/19/2009 at 6:26am by theatregrl2
(0)Wow, that is horrible. I'm sorry. Hopefully you and your (soon to be ex, I presume) husband support each other.
#13 - On 04/19/2009 at 6:27am by drinkupgorgeous
(0)I'm sorry you had to find out in that way. I hope things work out for you and the new baby.
#14 - On 04/19/2009 at 6:27am by VerticalOrbit
(0)Oh my gosh #6 Abortion is NOT the answer.
and #9 Shut the hell up, I'm sure grammatical correctness is the last thing the OP is worried about.
I'm so sorry. that sucks.
Congrats on your pregnancy anyway.
(0)That is so horrible. It is terrible that you had to find out like that.
Hope things look up for you.
#18 - On 04/19/2009 at 6:48am by candehfeind
(0)Dude... sick :S.
If I were you, I would have an abortion, but I'm not you, so hey!
#20 - On 04/19/2009 at 7:05am by trecool999
(0)you would have an abortion!? are youu kidding! you're gonna abort a baby because the father is gay? that's messed up
#379 - On 06/07/2010 at 2:49am by ricanbiboy123
(0)why would you get an abortion? because the baby's father is gay? big deal it's no reason to end a life before it even starts.
#380 - On 06/07/2010 at 2:51am by ricanbiboy123
(0)Omg, that sucks, but i bet he's still thrilled you're pregnant!! And you can still be. He probably really wants to be a father and he must still love you even though he maybe is gay...
Although this really aint the way you should find out about it, so yeah FYL
#22 - On 04/19/2009 at 7:07am by joey_flower
(0)Wow that is the suck. What an asshole. Good luck with whatever you decide to do with the pregnancy.
(0)#6 #19 and #21, abortion is NOT the answer for this situation. OP, You wanna divorce? That's fine. Don't want the kid? Thats not fine, if you don't want the baby, have it and put it up for adoption, give him/her a chance at life, no matter how fucked up our world is today, they still deserve a chance. Who knows? He/she could help change it! =]
#32 - On 04/19/2009 at 7:47am by Jigga_PaNG
(0)32 I love u
( not like love love but… u no what I mean)
#365 - On 03/30/2010 at 1:41am by ilovefatcats
(0)#34 except your appendix or cancerous tumor cannot be a new life...
#35 - On 04/19/2009 at 8:11am by Jigga_PaNG
(0)@34: I agree, an abortion is the mother's choice, however if you cannot see the offense in calling someone by a derogatory name then there is obviously something wrong with you. It was said in a negative manner, not as a light-hearted joke (like, "yeah, I'm such a FagHag"). Would you go around calling people fags, kikes, wetbacks, etc to their faces? If you would than maybe you should take a better look at yourself. I'm not going to "cut the PC crap" because I don't believe that looking down on the use of a derogatory word is just "PC crap"
#36 - On 04/19/2009 at 8:15am by theatregrl2
(0)Not that I have a problem with homosexuals but like, I'm sure it must have been a downer to find out that your Husband likes men.
#38 - On 04/19/2009 at 8:21am by Prisoner_24601
(0)Tbh, I wouldn't mind walking in on my partner making out with a member of the same sex.
At least now if you stay together you'll be able to guilt trip him into doing all the nappy changes and night feeds, and if you do break up, at least you found out now rather than later, and you'll probably get everything in a divorce seeing as he was unfaithful.
(0)Oh no :( I'm so sorry for you. It's bad enough that he's cheating on you, but with another man... way for him to add insult to injury, geez.
Congrats on the pregnancy though! It's sad that it's with him, but a baby is a baby. Good luck hon.
#40 - On 04/19/2009 at 8:27am by babydoll86
(0)Well I would at least hear his story first. But cheating is cheating. If you deside to keep the baby maybe you two could just be friends. He should have told you, you found out in a horrible way. Im sorry.
#41 - On 04/19/2009 at 8:31am by jazminbliss
(0)Just because he has...alternate preferences does not mean that he does not love you and he won't be a wonderful father. Instead of posting on the Internet and listening to snarky comments about your husband's potential sexuality and aborting your baby, take time to talk to him. He does love you. Work from there.
#42 - On 04/19/2009 at 8:43am by betsymonty
(0)Has anyone else, aside from me, considered that the dude may be bisexual and cheating rather than hiding that he's gay? Doesn't make the situation any better, but still. I'm sure he still loves her, I certainly don't think he'd be trying to have a child with her if he didn't.
#43 - On 04/19/2009 at 8:48am by susiemango
(0)wow this one really takes the cake honestly this has to be one of the worst out there i dunno how anyone can say YDI since you had no idea and it was one of his co-workers so you couldnt know at all
#44 - On 04/19/2009 at 8:49am by ZiggyMorrison
(0)I hope you told him anyway, just to punctuate his embarrassment.
#48 - On 04/19/2009 at 9:11am by FreedomFirst
(0)For your sake OP, I'm hoping your husband did that as a one off thing because he was curious or something. Even if he's gay, I hope you keep the baby though. Who knows? You may have a good life with him/her.
And #2, I think #3 was pointing out to the fact that you used the word 'fagg', not because you said "fuckin". But then again, almost everyone who has replied to you has pointed this out and proven that you are indeed a twat. Congrats.
#49 - On 04/19/2009 at 9:15am by barlessprison
(0)I agree with #52; I don't think you're seeing the potential for awesome in this situation, OP. Gay guys are hot; you presumably thought so about the one you married. Since he married you, there's a decent possibility he's actually bi and you can get some threeway action going? Maybe not your thing, but I heartily recommend giving it a shot.
Re: keeping the baby - why are people so eager to tell someone how to make such a difficult decision? Regardless what she decides, it's traumatic and personal, and with any luck, no one bases their decision on the tally of internet comments pro/anti.
#54 - On 04/19/2009 at 9:41am by tentacularone
(0)Agree with #32. Why would she get an abortion? That's a shitty thing to tell her. The situation sucks ass, but she has other choices! And for the record..I'm pro-CHOICE....it's her choice. And ya'll should get off her back. The OP never said anything abortion in her post, why bring it up?
To the OP: I'm sorry, that's sucks. But, talk to him...see what he says. And then call your lawyer.
(0)i'm sure it would be a shock at the time, but stuff like this probably happens alot. if you hadn't questioned his sexuality before, then most likely, it won't be a major problem in the relationship. he did ask you to marry him and if he has been trying to have a baby with you. he may have just been experimenting so he wouldn't hurt you later in the relationship if other men really were his thing. talk to him, not to us.
#57 - On 04/19/2009 at 9:46am by makebelieve
(0)He could be bi. I have a lot of gay friends and most of them can't even look at a vagina, let alone have any part of themselves inside a vagina. The ones that can, have to be really really drunk. So, unless he was completely sloshed every time you had sex, there is a chance he is bi. (However, Dan Savage talks a lot about really horny gay men who can sleep with just about anything. So, it could be a possibility.) If he really wanted a child, being gay doesn't mean he'll be a terrible father. Maybe you'll luck out and his partner will be awesome too and then the kid will be lucky and have 2 great dads.
(0)#9 A period actually would work in this case. The pause is for comedic timing.
#59 - On 04/19/2009 at 9:58am by ThomasShaped
(0)#59 - The better way to mark a pause for comedic timing is to use an ellipsis.
Doesn't matter now since it was edited.
Still can't open an office though.
#61 - On 04/19/2009 at 10:13am by turtlebots
(0)eek,
um, i still dont understand...
he got u pregnant and he's makin out with a dude?
that can't be real
#63 - On 04/19/2009 at 10:18am by omgitsseejay
(0)I actually completely believe this could happen and it pretty much sucks for everyone involved. Sucks for him if he is gay that he couldn't be open about it. And obviously totally sucks for the OP because she's been dragged into him trying to pretend he isn't.
I hope things work out for you. And congratulations on the baby.
#64 - On 04/19/2009 at 10:30am by dancing_bear
(0)This is more common than you think. Well not catching the making out, but actually gay men getting married to women.
However, I feel bad for the TC only because now she has a child with this particular dude and he's not into her like she thinks.
#65 - On 04/19/2009 at 10:33am by NorfolkDude
(0)#6, 19, and 21- what the hell is wrong with you? it would be ridiculous to get an abortion because the father is gay. That doesn't even make sense. You would kill your child simply because their father is gay? That's insane. No offense to anyone, I just strongly agree with abortion in most cases. But especially that... gay people can support children just as well as a straight person.
(0)just because he's making out with a dude doesn't mean he's gay.
just have a mmf threesome!
#68 - On 04/19/2009 at 10:49am by resignation
(0)#9 wtf is wrong with you? the woman just figured out that her husband might be gay and you start correcting her grammar. just wow.
#69 - On 04/19/2009 at 11:01am by skiiergirl1313
(0)Awww am sorry 2 hear tht :| but atleast you can hav a beautiful baby at the end of the marraige if u break up. bless u. hope your problems get sorted out.
(0)Wow I'm sorry...and at least you have a child now, though, like 71 said. And I see you're getting divorced from your username..hope everything workso ut.
#72 - On 04/19/2009 at 11:17am by dol567
(0)If you married someone that you didn't know well enough to even suspect he batted for the other team then YDI.
(0)Yeah, I agree with #74, you should be absolutely certain you know everything about someone when you marry them. That being said, I'm not sure anyone really deserves this. Then again, this could be fake.
(0)#9,shut the hell up. Stop trying to be such a grammar nerd. God, no one cares.
to the OP: ouch, that sucks! But congrats on your baby =]
#77 - On 04/19/2009 at 11:37am by puppyeyes56
(0)How do you explain that... " Honey, it's not what it looks like.."
#82 - On 04/19/2009 at 11:50am by LackOfControl
(0)Yeah, I'm correcting her grammar. If she has the time to sit down and post this on FML, then she is obviously already recovering from the shocking news that her husband might be interested in men.
#84 - On 04/19/2009 at 11:56am by turtlebots
(0)Omg that sucks, I am so sorry. If I were you I would get an abortion, but note that I'm pro-choice, but you do what you think is best. I hope you make the right decision. If you want to keep the baby, keep it. You're excited, anyway!!! Congrats!!! But sorry about the husband thing. I would've been so pissed. DIVORCE!!!
And #9, is grammar seriously the first thing you think about when you read these FMLs? Preach it to an English class. It's not that serious.
#85 - On 04/19/2009 at 11:59am by ILoveJace01
(0)#9: stfu with all the grammar, we aren't in an english class, geez.
#62: WTF is fake about this? go post that stupid fake bullshit on the other FMLs.
Dudes why are yall telling her to have an abortion?
#19, looking at you, because you sound stupid. "You shouldn't raise a baby alone."
You know how many single mothers there are? And what would be the point of an abortion in this case, seriously? So what if you don't have a man to take care of a kid, and there are a lot of guys who would get with a woman who has a kid. My mom's single and is engaged to her boyfriend of 6 years. They both have kids, and neither care.
It sucks that your husband might be gay or bi. Either way he cheated, so it doesn't matter if he is trying to find out his sexuality he cheated. No need for that relationship anymore.
#86 - On 04/19/2009 at 12:13pm by ohhhhshizzz
that sucks... I don't know if it's real or not. but that's really a kick in the head.
#87 - On 04/19/2009 at 12:15pm by TheAmazingRacist
(0)To all you people saying abortion is wrong, guess what? This planet is already grossly overpopulated. So if the OP is going to have a child, it damn well better be a wanted child. Maybe she doesn't want this baby because it will be a reminder of what her husband did to her.
#90 - On 04/19/2009 at 12:21pm by GoMeat4103
(0)Alright everyone that is telling her to have an abortion wth. I mean I know its ultimately her choice but really why make the baby suffer for something it didn't do? She apparently wanted to have a baby and its not impossible to raise a baby on her own. There are men out there that would love to not have a child of their own or just can't have any. So there is a chance for the baby to have a father later on in life. Who is to say that the guy wouldn't make a good father anyway?? Do you people seriously think that gay people can't be good parents? If so wake up its 2009 NOT 1890. Plus he may not even be gay, but bi,,, which is not all that uncommon.
As for the operator I wish you all the best for you and the baby.
#92 - On 04/19/2009 at 12:29pm by simplyapril
(0)#90: no one is saying abortion is wrong, we're just saying it is really an IDIOTIC thing to do in this situation. so you sound really stupid, honestly.
#93 - On 04/19/2009 at 12:37pm by ohhhhshizzz
(0)well depending on the situation maybe she should or maybe she shouldnt get an abortion think about it if the guy is gay and in love with the other man and she doesnt want to be a single mother than its her right to abort it but if hes just curious and experimenting than probably not maybe now that the OP is pregnant it will change all that but if she wants to be a mom more than a normal family situation than I guess she shouldnt abort it like i said shes perfectly in the right if she wants to
and for the love of God dont start the abortion is murder debate on an FML thread
#94 - On 04/19/2009 at 12:40pm by ZiggyMorrison
(0)is it me or is this whole finding out about your spouse being homosexual is more common nowadays? that really is horrible, people should come out BEFORE marriage so that they do not hurt the spouse and HAVE A CHILD. well, i don't think we need to go to extremes of abortion for this.
#95 - On 04/19/2009 at 12:49pm by littlesnickeroo
(0)Hopefully you talked to him about it? Perhaps he was just "testing the field." Though why he didn't do this before he married you, who knows. It could be he was trying to get some type of promotion... however this probably is the wrong way to go about it, by cheating. Well anyway, congrats on your pregnancy! Keep the baby, if you do leave your husband, you'll want someone to love.
#97 - On 04/19/2009 at 12:54pm by LovelyCutiePie
(0)#90 sounds like Thomas Malthus, wiki him, lol and #94 we aren't debating abortion YET, but it looks like it'll lead there and that will suck, thaz alotta headache to read everyone's essays =/
#102 - On 04/19/2009 at 12:58pm by Jigga_PaNG
(0)You know abortion would just make things worse. There are lots of negative affects associated with abortion that a lot of people aren't aware of. Abortions cause a lot of psychological trauma. Despite that this would be an incredibly idiotic reason to get one. Anyways she obviously wants a kid as she said that HER AND her husband had been trying to have a baby she never indicated not wanting the baby.
#104 - On 04/19/2009 at 1:04pm by randomdude1234
(0)Maybe he is bi-sexual. No need to divorce him for that, you CAN drop him for cheating though. Good luck on whatever you decide.
#105 - On 04/19/2009 at 1:10pm by MukyDaCookie
(0)101: wtf is your problem what is fake about this?
you sound like a douche when you call fake about everything.
#109 - On 04/19/2009 at 1:19pm by ohhhhshizzz
(0)oooooooooooooo. oooowwwwchhh. u should have know when his outfits matched everyday, and he was more caring about your feelings. most guys aren't =/
(0)So I do support abortion. I just do not see why you would be suggesting it to a woman who has struggled so hard to become pregnant in the first place. Just because the father may not stick around us not a reason for her to throw all her effort away. What if she does still really want a child in her life and got this one aborted only to never be able to conceive another child. Think about it.
#111 - On 04/19/2009 at 1:22pm by mischiefkitty
(-1)Now you might end up with a faggot son as well as a faggot husband, FYL
#113 - On 04/19/2009 at 1:41pm by flavaflave
(0)Wow, it's pretty ridiculous that this has turned into a debate on abortion and correct grammar usage in an FML.
Choice means that the woman decides if it's a baby, yet, and if she wants to terminate it. I would think that is the OP was trying so hard to have a baby, she most likely considers it a life and will not want to terminate it.
In my own humble opinion, a man being gay will not make him a bad father, especially if he had been trying for a child right along with you. He could be bisexual or he could be gay. It is not uncommon for a gay man to try and make it work with a woman because he wants a family and to be "normal." It wouldn't mean that he didn't love you or that he didn't want this baby. It wouldn't mean he wouldn't try just as hard if not harder than a straight man to be a great father.
Also, in my equally humble opinion, I don't think number 9 really gave a rat's ass about grammar. They simply knew that since proper grammar is the last and not first thing one should comment on in this post, it would garner a big reaction from later comments.
OP, I am very sorry that you found out about your partner's preferences in this way. Hopefully, your husband can be more open and honest with you and the two of you can work things out in a way that is most beneficial to both the two of you and your unborn child. Whatever you choose to do is your business. I wish you well.
(0)woooow, how have 472 people said that she desrved that one... how on earth could she deserve that
#117 - On 04/19/2009 at 2:07pm by XxnandotorresxX
(0)Well, number 115, it no longer meant just black when you were born, so you aren't grandfathered in, I am afraid.
Most hurtful words have innocuous beginnings. It wasn't just used to describe black people. It evolved into a definition of a dirty and low person. It has centuries of hurt behind it. It hasn't simply meant black in a long, long time. It is not like me thinks, as me thinks has never been used to degrade a person nor has someone said, "Me thinks" just before lashing someone. If African American had been used in such a way, perhaps it would have fallen out of favor, yes, but it wouldn't have been because it was used to describe a people but because it was used to humiliate and degrade a people.
Also, midget is derogatory...for the same reason.
Ask yourself not why these words are "swears" but why you want to use them so bad. I think it says something about you that you are angry not to be able to, without controversy, refer to people with terms that have been used to humiliate, degrade, and dehumanize them.
(0)#111 : Having an abortion doesn't mean you can never get back pregnant later in your life...
#115 : Are you biphobic ?
(0)Maybe he's just bi-curious? Altough then it would have been a lot better of course if he talked wit you about it.
How was your sex life? Was it to the bare minimum or was it ok?
(0)Wow. Ummm. Wow. That is wrong in so many ways, I'm having difficulty sorting them out.
Just to play devil's advocate here... maybe the other guy was a client and your husband thought it was his job to "put the client's needs first" and maybe the client was bi-curious...
So there is a verrrry slim chance your husband is not a homosexual, and he was just doing it as part of his job.
On the other hand, if the other guy was a co-worker... your life is fucked. Get as far away from him as possible, and when the kid is old enough just tell him his dad was killed in a tragic accident or something.
(0)121 - abortion is legal in the US, deal with it. She has a right to choose, don't make it any harder for her.
That having been said, adoption is a choice as well. But, for someone who has been trying for so long, I'm sure you're dying to be a mother with or without him and I bet you'd make a great one. (I was a long-term TTCer, btw.)
I'm so so sorry your husband is a cheating, lying bastard. How dare he play with your heart, your life, and your body for years just to cover up something about himself. That disgusts me. Take care of yourself, sweetie, and best of luck.
#123 - On 04/19/2009 at 2:32pm by heatherewf
(0)#32, it's the OP's choice. I'm sick of people saying that abortion isn't an option. YES IT IS. It is entirely up to her to do what she damn well pleases and none of your fucking business.
Stop telling her what she's allowed and not allowed to do.
Granted, I know it probably won't happen as she's had a difficult time conceiving, but seriously, all you pro life people need to pull your heads out of your asses.
#124 - On 04/19/2009 at 2:33pm by soulonfire928
(0)Ugh, what a way to find out. ): I'm sorry. But hey! Everything will be fine.
#125 - On 04/19/2009 at 2:37pm by mothfather
(0)Wow #9, because I'm sure she's completely concerned with her grammar and spelling errors right now.
OP: I'm sorry. That's a really rough situation. Whatever decision you make, I wish you the best of luck.
#126 - On 04/19/2009 at 2:38pm by fad1ngfast
(0)mmm... i'm gonna call bs here. who finds out they're preggers and then that their hubby is cheating on them with a guy and then immediately posts it on fml? i highly doubt that sharing your emotionally painful experience with a bunch of tweens-adults online would be the first thing on your mind. i'm just sayin...
#127 - On 04/19/2009 at 2:46pm by hannahleigh
(0)just wow #9. you sure are weird. nobody cares about grammar that much because we arent writing essays here. lol calm yourself.
(0)Yo, #96 and #113...shut the fuck up assholes. Those are terrible things to say. Get a life...maybe if u got off the computer/PS3/Xbox and joined the human race....nah, forget it...just shut the fuck up, pussies.
(0)#6 - why would you even mention abortion? did you not notice the OP saying she and her husband had been trying to have a baby for a while?
#9, you're being a jerk. who would care about grammar? this must be a really difficult time for the poor wife..
#135 - On 04/19/2009 at 4:31pm by paintergirl12
(0)For all of you saying she should have an abortion...if you read the post, she mentions that they have been TRYING to have a baby for some time. So, just because she and the father are divorcing (I assume); does NOT mean she should have an abortion! When you TTC (try to concieve), you WANT a baby. Now that she has one growing...why would she want to kill it? Anyways, OP, I'm sorry that happened to you, it sucks. But...congrats on the baby! WTE.com is a great website for expecting mommies!
#136 - On 04/19/2009 at 4:41pm by ChelseaAnn08
(0)Can I just add one thing without pissing off the homophobes?
OP, I don't think this deserves an FML.If you think it does,then ask yourself this: Is your life fucked because he was cheating or because he was cheating WITH A MAN? If it was because he may possibly be bisexual(most gay men won't touch a woman for money) then sorry to break it to you but you're also slightly homophobic.
If it's because he was just plain cheating then talk to him about it and find out if he'd always known if he is bisexual. Don't do the classic "screaming arguing tirade" women are so fond of. If he is indeed bisexual and if he does love you as you said, shouldn't that be the most important thing?
As a PRO-CHOICE person, let me add that if the reason you're going to get rid of a baby(or fetus) is because the father is possibly gay, then do the baby a favour and just get rid of it if all you'll teach it is that gay men are unnatural. If on the other hand,he's being trying WITH YOU,then HE STILL WANTS THE BABY. FIGURE IT OUT ON YOUR OWN!
For anyone screaming divorce,no wonder the USA has the highest divorce rate in the whole bloody world. Instead of talking things over, you leave it up to the legal system to sort it out for you. Take a little responsibility,you wimps!
To the homophobes: Let's hope you all don't breed AT ALL. Are your lives so pathetic that you'll stoop so low to victimize and dehumanize a fellow human being for being different?!
#139 - On 04/19/2009 at 5:18pm by bollywood_rocks
(0)#6 - Wow, just wow. Sod off.
#113 - Nothing wrong with being gay, it's brainwashed homophobic trash such as yourself that make the world hard to live in. In short: screw off, you ignorant hick.
OP - Your husband may just be bisexual. Talk to him about it and work through it? Seems like you guys care enough about each other that you want children together, so... If you guys care about each other that much you ought to consider salvaging the marriage instead of going straight to divorce. Best of luck to you both, and congratulations on the pregnancy.
(0)#139 - In all honesty I think the OP's bothered by the fact that her husband was keeping secrets and was cheating on her, especially when they were trying to conceive. (This is assuming the OP isn't a homophobic bigot.)
(0)#9, get a life. OP, I'm sorry to hear this heartbreaking story. Just be glad you're married (alimony and child-support) and that you found out before you had any more children. Your baby will go a long way to healing the pain your husband just foisted on you. God bless you, and I wish you the best of luck in moving on.
(0)#122....WTF? You must be insanely homophobic, that you would rather tell a kid that his father was killed in a horrible accident than to tell him that his father is gay and that's why Mommy and Daddy aren't married. Wow.
(0)@ 9..ur a dumbass! Who cares about her grammar!? Her husband is gay! N ur correcting her grammar!....congrats on ur pregnancy n fuck ur husband! A child is the biggest blessing in the world. :))))
#144 - On 04/19/2009 at 5:37pm by tigerarmy_13
(0)I'm sorry, that really sucks. You should talk to him first though before you do anything drastic. Congrats on the baby, at least something good has come out of the situation.
#145 - On 04/19/2009 at 5:46pm by indecision
(0)I agree with #9...in that the only thing worth commenting on is the grammer because this story is BS...all the way, too dramatic, and to cliche, really
If i truly am wrong, and ur not a liar, then i can counter the claims that I am a bastard with this; if something this shitty happened to you, truly, and you were all torn up about it, why the hell would you want to post this on FML??
#146 - On 04/19/2009 at 5:50pm by MIKEpiersall
(0)#17 It is true that abortion is not good, but in this case it is completely appropriate
#148 - On 04/19/2009 at 5:54pm by yummahcupekakez
(0)that's terrible! wow. better then him cheating on you with a girl, huh?
i sense a triangular relationship.
and also, i'd probably get the abortion, that's horrible,
it'd just be easier to have a kid with someone whos committed to you.
(0)OH SNAP.
I don't know if you should go through with the pregnancy. It's not good to be angry while you're pregnant or whatever you're feeling besides happy-goodness. I'm so sorry. Deng, everyone turning the corner now. T_T;
#151 - On 04/19/2009 at 6:13pm by lowcapacityx
(0)OH SNAAAAP!
Maybe you should reconsider if you want to go through with this pregnancy. You don't want to have a baby when you're not filled with happy-goodness.
#152 - On 04/19/2009 at 6:14pm by lowcapacityx
(0)an extremely similar story happened to someone i know, horrible that you have to go through it.
divorce him
#153 - On 04/19/2009 at 6:25pm by _anonymoose_
(0)Just talk to him about it. Find out if he's bi or gay or straight. Make him feel comfortable so he'll be honest. You need to know that before making a decision.
If he's gay, it's unfair to both of you to keep him in the relationship, with you knowing he isn't really interested and him having to fake attraction.
If he's bi, treat it the same as you would him making out with another girl... how you deal with that is your choice.
If he's straight, and that was one-time curiosity, again, it's your choice.
#154 - On 04/19/2009 at 6:39pm by Dichoscillation
(0)Damn. That suckss. Well I'd keep the baby, the baby didn't do anything wrong. No wonder you couldn't have babies. The man just wanted another man. But good luck with your divorce. It must be hard. I wonder what his explanation was?
I agree with
#157 - On 04/19/2009 at 7:15pm by fuck_lifeeeee
(0)138 your a fucking redneck. its gun toting, tobacco chewing, idiots like you that make america look bad.
op: sorry to hear about that, it really does suck but it happens pretty often. but you have a baby!!!!!!
#161 - On 04/19/2009 at 7:32pm by kelseymarie
(0)#138, because Obama is her husband, right? Oh, right, I forgot. Don't blame Obama. It's not like he forced her husband's lips onto that man's. Jeeze.
#162 - On 04/19/2009 at 7:44pm by ILoveJace01
(0)#9, REALLY ?!
Was the paragraph on grammar necessary?
but yea i'm sorry your husband is a homosexual, wait no ...bisexual, i'm hoping
(0)Oh, and #139: how exactly does one "talk over" their husband being gay? Let alone the fact that he was cheating on her.
There is a slight possibility that her husband is bi-sexual (men rarely are) and they could deal with the cheating. However, there's a much greater probability that he is not even attracted to her and was doing the baby thing just because he knew it was what he was "supposed" to do.
#166 - On 04/19/2009 at 8:03pm by FrostyNorth
(0)1. Nothing wrong with being gay. Come on everyone, it's the 21st century, keep up with the program.
2. Threesome?
3. Congrats on the baby!
4. :/ important thing is to TALK to this guy. There's got to be some sort of... back story to what happened?
Good luck!
#169 - On 04/19/2009 at 8:12pm by above_the_birds
(0)wow...um...Awkward...In my opinion...I would dump my husband, if he was gay and keep the baby
#171 - On 04/19/2009 at 8:33pm by flavormyheart
(0)(I'm #9) All the stories on here are 80% BS with maybe a 2% element of truth and 18% comedic twists. So fuck yeah grammar is important. If people are going to take the time to make up stupid stories, they should at least have it make sense.
#172 - On 04/19/2009 at 8:49pm by turtlebots
(0)I think its wonderful how your username is soontobedivorced...
anyway congratulations on the pregnancy, hope it works out
also, has anyone else thought that maybe if he is gay, he just wanted her to get pregnant for him and his bf? just wondering. don't let him get custody just in case that was his plan.
#173 - On 04/19/2009 at 9:00pm by checkitoutt
(0)167, I guess you can't? By talking it over,I meant find out if the guy is gay,bisexual or bi-curious. Then figure out a course of action.
Maybe I'm just weird but I'd rather find out a man is cheating on me with another man; it's easier to justify than if he was cheating on me with a woman. Then again if I was OP, this will be a perfect opportunity to guilt him into a threesome. I'm also bisexual so that'd be a bonus knowing my husband is bisexual too.
Too many possibilities...
#177 - On 04/19/2009 at 9:23pm by bollywood_rocks
(0)That must have been a shock, unless you had any prior suspicions. But anyways, wow.
I hope it all works out. If it were me, I'd keep the baby, talk to him, and *cough* yea, get that threesome going. xD
#178 - On 04/19/2009 at 9:28pm by xcarcrashheart
(0)This sounds like that movie "Far From Heaven", except the wife wasn't pregnant.
That really sucks though, I'm sorry :(
Good luck sorting everything out.
(0)I don't think it's fake, i've heard stories of this kinda nature. Check my fave for another FML like this, pretty funny
But on your part, i guess it's time to move on. Sorry to hear that
#180 - On 04/19/2009 at 9:47pm by ccsballazdre
(0)Amen #92; most people on here are a bit stuck in the past.
#181 - On 04/19/2009 at 9:49pm by makebelieve
(0)k when someone says LOL or laughs stop telling them they are assholes scroll up and read. it says my life sucks but i dont give a fuck meaning there is some sort of comedy in the situation that the person who wrote it is willing to share with anyone that has a computer. if they were that sensitive about it putting it on the interent wouldnt have been there choice. there is nothing wrong with being gay, but obviously talk to him cause who knows what the story is. also id keep the baby cause if u wanted to be a other there is no reason to give up on it. if u dont want the baby cause u cant raise one alone there is more parents who want to adopt that would love the child than there are women giving up their children for adoption
#185 - On 04/19/2009 at 11:00pm by jcov2454
(0)It sounds to me your husband is likely bi. But basically he was cheating on you, and where you go from here is your decision, regarding possible divorce and whether or not to continue the pregnancy.
I will say that it is untrue that traumatic effetcs take place after abortion, it is far more likely to happen after adoption or giving birth (post adoptive depression and postpartum depression are far more common). Don't let anti-choice/forced-birth trolls get to you.
Good luck
(0)Maybe it's like one of those "Trust Fall" Things you hear about. Only... you know... the gay version
#187 - On 04/19/2009 at 11:18pm by Jack_Of_Spades
(0)HEY 139 YOU FUCKING INSENSITIVE PRICK
Of course this is an FML her husband cheated on her the fact that its with a man is irrealavant for some but for alot of people makes it worse but you insist on calling "HOMOPHOBIA HOMOPHOBIA DEAR GOD QUEER HATERS!!!!" at any slight inclination of it, grow up I dont know anyone who woulndt feel more hurt if they were cheated on by a member of the same sex but its all irrealvant to the fact that he cheated period.
And about divorce are you saying an affair is not grounds for it? are you fucking shitting me? it doesnt matter what country your in an affair is an affair whether its with another man a women a donkey or your uncle lenny
p.s. Bollywood sucks donkey dick its stupid long pointless and rips off american movies but adds long pointless dance sequences
#188 - On 04/19/2009 at 11:31pm by ZiggyMorrison
(0)My sympathies, and my hopes that you don't live in a no-fault state.
#193 - On 04/20/2009 at 2:01am by Kat_Kooteh24
(0)This isn't funny it's sad D: but the fact that OP is posting this on FML must mean she's taking it better than I would.
Although he's been hiding this from you as well as cheating, he'll help support the baby if you choose to have it right? Good luck!
#196 - On 04/20/2009 at 2:55am by airplanefood
(0)Today my mom was so excited to learn about me that she couldn't wait to tell my dad. Then she found out my dad may be gay. Now lots of strangers are advising her to kill me. FML
#197 - On 04/20/2009 at 2:59am by doof_fisch
(0)not into threesomes or the other guy just wasn't good looking enough?
maybe OP's husband is just a bit curious or whatnot. if he is 100% gay, then you have a problem. but if he is just bi, he would likely still make a fine husband/dad...
#42 has some sense. you need to talk to your husband about it
#201 - On 04/20/2009 at 10:50am by evolveahimsa
(0)did anyone think about the fact that maybe her husband is bi? if he is, it's really no different than finding him cheating with another woman - and depending on how strong their marriage is, maybe they can get past that. if he really is gay and is not attracted to women, then that's a different issue.
#202 - On 04/20/2009 at 11:24am by luckyxoxo2012
(0)Honestly what is to FML about it. I know for a fact that my finance would be thrilled if she saw me with another man, too bad for her, that wont happen. On the side note if he is Bi, that was hardly cheating, because lets face it, there is things you just cant offer. Maybe he was rightfully afraid to tell you.
(0)Don't get an abortion. You were trying to have this baby. Don't let you husband ruin your marriage and your baby's life. You can do it. Don't make your baby pay for your husband's lies.
#208 - On 04/20/2009 at 4:26pm by allornothing93
(0)i really cant stand people who preach day and night about not getting an abortion. you can do what you want, especially given this situation. congrats on the pregnancy.
and number 9, you just suck, no one likes you.
#210 - On 04/20/2009 at 5:08pm by oliviagrizz
(0)First off, #9 is a complete douchebag!
Sorry you had to listen to THAT bullshit on top of what's going on!
That truly, truly, TRULY bites.
I hope you're divorcing him?
(0)#9 -- you are so rude.
& i'm so sorry about your husband.
#213 - On 04/20/2009 at 7:08pm by sweetlovexxx
(0)It took 51 comments until someone came up with the idea of a threesome? Wow, this must be one of the purest placest in the whole internet.
(0)This dosen't mean your husband is gay,do don't give up just yet.
He could be bi, or just really still love you.
I say you get angry at him for cheating, tell him, see what he says.
Whatever happens, I assume you at least are happy to be a mommy finally?
(0)#9
First of all, she did use teh making out part properly, as she clearly stated " I saw him making out with a man."
FYL #9. Clearly, u need to read between the lines
Poor you! That's one disloyal man if he's not gonna tell you about him being gay =[. U got a big decision up ahead
(0)Oh.
Shit.
What the fuck happened? That is just......
Shit.
#217 - On 04/20/2009 at 8:09pm by Sportyshorty23
(0)Oh, I am so sorry! If it was me, I would be so devastated, but the best thing to do is to bring the topic to light to find out what's really going on. I guess now would not be the time to congratulate you for getting pregnant? :[
#219 - On 04/20/2009 at 8:15pm by _degaussed
(0)now that sucks. like really really sucks. like legit im sorry to hear that cause its really depressing
(0)No one would want to see and have that or be in that situation. I would think you might need to talk to some of your family to see what you should do next. It will be hard and being pregnant isn't easy. Also you have the decision if you would want to keep the baby or not. Wow soo many problems all because of men lying.
(0)#9... just... woww people must hate to be around you.
for all of you questioning the husbands sexuality... i dont think the real issue here is whether he is gay or straight, but the fact that he was unfaithful, whether it be with a man or woman. even if he is bisexual, he was still unfaithful, and it should be taken no lighter than if he was cheating w/ a woman.
as to the baby, it is totally your choice, but i dont see why you would kill it because the father was unfaithful. thats just my opinion, but definitely take time on this decision, its a big one!
But congrats on the awesome news! =D
#224 - On 04/20/2009 at 9:48pm by lovemusic1694
(0)lmao #9 good luck with your ocd.
and that sucks. maybe he's bi and you could have some hot threesomes... ;]
congrats on the baby though!
#226 - On 04/20/2009 at 10:59pm by fhgoalie17
(0)So ... that's messed up... he knocked you up... then said eff you? or is bi? or ... do you know. Good luck!
#228 - On 04/21/2009 at 4:08am by lazydeviant
(0)I read some deep thoughts about this situation. Not only did he cheat technically but he did it with ANOTHER MAN. ( just got a bad taste in his mouth..gross) So if you want to get deep into the craziness you can find out all that non sense if he's bi, gay or straight (#154)....that will just make the decision worse and add insult to the wound. And who ever said threesome, you should get shot..it's like me having sex with two girls that are more into each other then me....although, I'll probably do it....but can you imagine a dude, doing another and then sticking it into your wife...you already know that dudes drop big loads...LMAO.
Seriously: Divorce, especially if he's gay and the child...that's a tough one. I don't think it's a living organism til you can actually feel it moving. But that's my opinion.
(0)Keep the baby!!! You can both still be parents, regardless of what his orientation is. Or even if he's not in the picture, don't have an abortion!!! Hold your head up and be a proud, loving mother. You're baby deserves that. Congratulations!!!
(0)231, as do people who are quick to condemn others to hell
You think by sending them to hell or wherever it is,you'll get to heaven faster?
didn't your god say not to judge?
#232 - On 04/21/2009 at 3:28pm by bollywood_rocks
(0)Uhm, well.
I'm sorry, but congrats on the pregnancy! ^^
Ok, to all you people who have a problem about gays. Shut up. What did they ever do to you?! LOVE ISH LOVE. NO MATTAH TEH PREFERENCE. >_
(0)THAT SUCKS (wow, poor choice of words). Hopefully your life gets better.
#234 - On 04/21/2009 at 5:12pm by AkihiroHattori5
(0)Oh my god, that is terrible. Not only did he keep whatever attraction to men that he had from you, but he flat out betrayed you. NO ONE should blame you for wanting an abortion if you feel that you won't be ready to raise the child alone or give it the best life. However, if you do want to keep it, don't let your problems with your ex-husband interfere with how you treat the child, okay?
#235 - On 04/21/2009 at 6:19pm by justjayit
(0)Girl! You should divorce him and take him to the cleaners! I would. You'd have enough to take care of that baby, yourself, and put the baby through school.
#236 - On 04/21/2009 at 6:35pm by pancakelover
(0)The guy did wrong. I think a divorce is enough. Why do women think that it makes it better for them to "take them to the cleaners". The money that he has. The hard work he put AT WORK has nothing to do with her....well, in this case, he was putting alittle extra at work. But WOMEN....sorry, girls, cause a woman doesn't need a man's money....girls need to stop thinking that taking him to the cleaners is going to make her vengeance more appropriate.
#232 good one.
(0)HOT!!! Love it!!! (Im being the opposite so please lighten up) It sucks if that happened to me i would divorce in no time! But of all the circumstances you had to walk into him making out with a man! Didnt you even sense that he was gay? Did he really make love to you? Maybe he's not really gay (like a flaming queen) its just that he has some urges for men that he has to quench.
#240 - On 04/22/2009 at 8:10am by viji_island
(0)Man thats just crap...
I hate dishonesty and I hate cheating they're 2 very undesirable qualities in a person.
Ditch his sorry ass, you'll have your beautiful new baby he'll have dick all.
(No pun intended)
#241 - On 04/22/2009 at 11:38am by anon_anon_anon
(0)#9 nobody cares... i feel sorry for you if you took the time to write the information nobody really cared about. fyl.
OP, that sucks.
#244 - On 04/22/2009 at 4:14pm by LethalMofo
(0)wow... thats brutal. it sucks that you had to find out that way,
btw people, some nasty comments here, try havin atleast some respect
-good luck wit the kid if ya keep it
(0)That's the worst sorry you had to learn that way.
#247 - On 04/22/2009 at 10:35pm by Sorryboutthat
(0)That's the worst sorry you had to learn that way.
#248 - On 04/22/2009 at 10:35pm by Sorryboutthat
(0)LOL am not against Gays But you got knocked up by gay lol !! am sorry !!
#251 - On 04/23/2009 at 3:15pm by Arabian_Dude
(0)Wow I'm sorry and I don't know how some of these people can even suggest abortion. Why would you "get rid of" a baby because the father is a liar? That's not even human
#253 - On 04/23/2009 at 8:26pm by sgrnspc1098
DAMN....that's the most horrible thing to happen....I'd have pissed the hell off though. I love my gay friends and all....but still he could have just told you... Yea FYL.. Sorry. :(
#41 I agree.
#254 - On 04/23/2009 at 8:44pm by rosalie_haostn
(0)Oh wow. Im so sorry this happened to you. There is no excuse for the fact that he was living a lie
#255 - On 04/24/2009 at 2:44am by Equineangel91
(0)So sorry :( I hope he makes good money and you can get a large divorce settlement and child support to take care of your baby for life! take him for all he's got.
#256 - On 04/24/2009 at 12:51pm by lacotuitblue
(0)He's probably always had an idea that he was attracted to men. Sucks that this had to happen now. Good luck on whatever you decide to do with the pregnancy.
#263 - On 04/25/2009 at 1:41pm by jaclynkathleen
(0)I'm sorry. Honestly, I would probably die if I ever found the guy I'm with now making out with another guy.
And just to reference/comment to response #9: Her grammar is fine as it is. In order to comment about someone's grammar, you should probably find a FML (and yes, I am saying "a" because "F" is a consonant, not a vowel) that applies to grammar mishaps you are attempting to point out. Clearly there are no misused periods, so your period comment does not apply to this woman at all.
#265 - On 04/25/2009 at 7:37pm by sinceidcishare
(0)lady just take a seat your done youve done all you can do lol that really sucks
p.s. up side how about a 3-way sex party youll be happy in no time lol double cocking action (shotgun not a dick please dont block me)
#270 - On 04/27/2009 at 1:47am by falconpunch
(0)you are ALOT nicer than I am. . . camera in bag at all times for such occasions. . . can you say Christmas card?
but anyway asshole aside. . .
CONGRATULATIONS ON THE NEW BABY!!!!
#271 - On 04/27/2009 at 2:24am by phucked4ever
(0)Wow thats just a huge lack of communication between the two of you and doesnt sound like your marriage was anything special in the first place. You should have known something was up from talking to him everyday unless you didnt even do that
(0)gay people are hot.
but he's probably bi...
dunno about bis.
but congrats on the new baby, and if you get divorced, take all his money.
#276 - On 04/29/2009 at 8:42pm by _a_through_z
(0)awww sweetie, im so sry!!
congrats on tha pregnancy tho.
#279 - On 04/30/2009 at 6:13pm by missindpnt
(0)OP, I'd get screened if I were you. After almost 12 years of practicing medicine, I've noticed that *closeted* gay and bisexual men aren't the most prudent lovers. When they have a chance to indulge in their "dirty little secret", things like "barrier protection" and "visible sores". *Out* gay and bisexual men are far more likely to worry about what they could be bringing home to the Mr. or Mrs., *closeted* gay and bisexual men get "caught up in the moment" or "indulging just this one time".
(0)"baby,i swear this isn't what it looks like!"
LMAO xD
#286 - On 05/07/2009 at 8:02pm by DangerousBabee
(0)oh my im so sorry did you and him discuss that yet?
#287 - On 05/08/2009 at 4:55pm by lemon_lime077
(0)I'm so sorry that this has happened to you. That's just cruel. And I agree with #32; I hope you don't abort the baby.
(0)This was the very first FML I ever read.
All I can say is, that really sucks.
No wonder it was so hard for you to get pregnant...
#296 - On 05/12/2009 at 5:50pm by redbluegreen
(0)I guess you had best get an AIDS test and pray that you and your baby will not have AIDS. I feel so sorry for you having to go through those emotions at a time when you should be so truly happy. At least you caught him and now know where your marriage stands. It would have been so much worse to go through 20 years of marriage and then find out. Hopefully, everything will work out for you and your baby. Good luck to you...
(0)hahahah.
i gotta say when i started reading this, i did not see that coming.
#299 - On 05/14/2009 at 7:23pm by brittbrittT
(0)Sounds yummy for my imagination. Were your husband on top or bottom?
#303 - On 05/18/2009 at 2:51pm by Sucks2beYouxD
(0)Awwwwwh! That's awful! I'm really sorry! I was having a bad day today but geeez...you're a trooper.. Well, you and your baby go find someone who's worth it!!!!
(0)Shit happens, I sappose. Well that really dose suck. well you can either forgive and forget, or leave... your only options. But don't be down, for your childs sake.
-Billy
#305 - On 05/19/2009 at 11:13pm by Billy_Coen
(0)for all the girls the cometed (i am not bie or gay) what is the matter with a gay being gay or bie wen a girl dose it its "cool" but wen i guy dose it its "gross" so if you have a problam with gay then @%#*&! and if you dont then fine!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
please dont stop being bie girls
#306 - On 05/21/2009 at 4:41pm by my_life_is_bad
(0)F#9L for having to much time on there hands...(and OP I don't see much wrong with your grammar)
#307 - On 05/21/2009 at 7:16pm by cheddarhead
(0)wow #9. FYL for not having one.
besides read again "I saw him making out with a man" It's well stated.
and we all understood what she mean by opening his office. -_-
#309 - On 05/23/2009 at 3:49pm by SoccerPlaya17
(0)hahaha omg. if i were you i would slap him and demand an explanation but as im not you u would've loved to watch them making out
#313 - On 06/01/2009 at 3:42pm by LovelessEva
(0)So that's where all his good sperm has been going! What a waste. Lose him.
#314 - On 06/02/2009 at 4:27pm by Ladybug_Mafia
(0)ahhhh yes.. time to bring out the "A" word dont you think?
#315 - On 06/07/2009 at 6:59pm by mickeyowns
(0)hm thats shocking poor you.. what are you going to do? did you break up? was he embarrassed? or ashamed? did you accept it???
#317 - On 06/09/2009 at 2:27pm by annmariadun
(0)Maybe your husband should have told you about his attraction to men instead of trying to have a baby.
#320 - On 06/16/2009 at 7:31am by Silver_Eyes
(0)He's probably in a love triangle. He could be bisexual and love you and want a baby but love the other guy at the same time.
#321 - On 06/16/2009 at 7:57pm by AlreadyExistsTH
(0)Maybe he was... scouting... potential donors...? Ugh.
/sourface
/fidget
Damn. That is just plain harsh. FYL all the way.
#326 - On 07/06/2009 at 2:01am by justanotherhuman
(0)Okay, I have nothing against gay people, but that was just... wow.
FYL, and that made me laugh, no offense to you :P
(0)This is the only situation where cheating wouldn't necessarily merit divorce for me. The *only* reason cheating would be excusable or understandable would be if the other person had something I absolutely cannot offer, like a penis, and my husband was too afraid of my reaction to discuss it. We'd still need a ton of therapy though.
I have a hard time with abortion in this situation, because the baby is just as much his as it is hers. Even if they divorced and she wanted nothing to do with the kid, he should still have the option to raise it-- gay, straight, bi or trans. Just because it is in her body doesn't give her the right to get rid of it; it's not like he has the option to take it from her and bear it himself. His rights should be respected, cheater or no.
#330 - On 08/04/2009 at 6:15am by TheIrishJaneDoe
(0)FYL and your husbands a dick for trying to get you pregnent while cheating on you...with a man
#333 - On 08/13/2009 at 11:44pm by DevineLegacy
(0)I hate the term, "preggers" it takes the same amount of letters to spell pregnant so just use the correct term so u don't sound stupid!
#342 - On 11/08/2009 at 11:58pm by amberita28
(0)I think we need to make an offical sandwich making video for all the women out there so they can learn how to make them. then they don't need to worry about us men creepin around. the way to a man's heart starts from the bottom up. Balls & Dick, Stomach (Sandwich becomes involved), then the actual love part the heart
#344 - On 12/07/2009 at 2:41pm by xclegend613
(0) #9 is kind of a douche bag. she just found out that her husband is bi, or gay (maybe she is a cover-up), and you think she wants to hear your stupid little rant about her grammar, and all over a stupid little period.
To OP: Damn, that sucks. But if he was cheating with a woman, would you forgive him and raise to baby. If so, this is no different. It is possible he is Bi, so it could work.
#345 - On 12/12/2009 at 9:11pm by Br0wnPr1d3
(0)hey, for the abortion thing, why would she want an abortion after shes been wanting a kid for so long? i mean yah, it would be a good way to send both her and her husband down into a worlpool of depression and in a way getting back at him, but come on? can you really be that stupid?
(0)damn.. this happens alot actually.. men always have a gay side. some more than others (as you see here haha).
#348 - On 01/02/2010 at 11:34pm by vampires769
(0)being a bisexual father cant be that bad...i mean, Billie Joe Armstrong from Green Day makes out with guys all the time and he has two children and a loving wife.
still sucks though. >.<
#349 - On 01/07/2010 at 6:07am by GreenDayRHCP
(0)omg....damn....that is really screwed up!! if I was you I'd get him back defintely! ...whatever it takes! how dare he use you like that!! if he wanted a child then he should have either not been gay or talk to you about it, gotten divorced and then adopted a kid...jeez he's such an evil person....if you keep the kid make sure it grows up knowing what a fricking peice of shit he is...better yet kill your cheating husband....temporary insanity??? I sure would!!
#389 - On 07/13/2010 at 11:11am by MemoriesBloom
(0)#6-what the hell is wrong with u? would you kill yoour unborn child, a pure INNOCENT human being who can only love and grow and learn, just because you found out the father is gay? you are a horrible,disgusting person, and you dont deserve love if u think murdering unborn children because their father is gay is moral and acceptable. asshole.
