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By ItsMelol - 19/4/2019 04:00
Today my boyfriend told me I want sex too much and he didn't want to keep rejecting my advances so I should just stop asking...the thing is, before he and I got together, I was content NOT having sex...HE MADE ME WANT MORE and now he is cutting back. I just want to cry. FML
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By  mssileas  |  22

Could be my ex. First he whined I didn't initiate sex often enough, yet every time I did he turned me down because it'd make him feel "emasculated". But then during every other fight he blamed his aggression on not getting enough sexual attention.
Anyway he's since my ex because this was exhausting. Sex isn't supposed to stress you out , quite the opposite.

You'll need to have a serious talk with your boyfriend. It's fair he doesn't feel good about turning you down a lot, but it's really off to ask you to just shut up about your own needs just because he's insecure about not fulfilling them.

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By  mssileas  |  22

Could be my ex. First he whined I didn't initiate sex often enough, yet every time I did he turned me down because it'd make him feel "emasculated". But then during every other fight he blamed his aggression on not getting enough sexual attention.
Anyway he's since my ex because this was exhausting. Sex isn't supposed to stress you out , quite the opposite.

You'll need to have a serious talk with your boyfriend. It's fair he doesn't feel good about turning you down a lot, but it's really off to ask you to just shut up about your own needs just because he's insecure about not fulfilling them.

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  mssileas  |  22

Oh dear I made the mistake of implying I have a sex life on the internet...

Anyway, no, I'm very happily promised to myself, I've decided I know best how to take care of me and build the life I want.

By  tounces7  |  26

Kinda sounds like he did that intentionally. And it also makes you wonder where else he might be getting it from that his sex drive suddenly went down.

By  Mungolikecandy  |  18

Incompatible libidos tend to lead to incompatible relationships.