Agreed. To me I think OP's boyfriend was just asking a legitimate question. If she gets upset by him asking, imagine how much worse it would be if he brought her the wrong one...

I also prefer diet. Both for the taste and because 32 ounces of legit sugar water would kill my sensitive stomach. But the obvious insinuation is that her boyfriend is subtly calling her fat and telling her she needs to go on a diet. That's pretty rude by itself. But the wording OP used also sounds like she was only ordering a drink and skipping the food. So it's especially messed up if her boyfriend was implying, "I know you're already skipping a meal, but really you should be skipping EVERYTHING..."

Agreed. I've been asked many times to specify whether I want diet or regular, and I'm what people call "too skinny," so most people ask it without any malicious intent. I'm guessing though that OP has some big weight issues which her bf would probably be aware of, so either her bf made a small careless mistake (and OP should try not to take it personally), or her bf said it in a rude insinuative way (in which case, FHL).

Yeah I wasn't hungry and was just getting the drink

OP you are beautiful. Hope you talked to him about it. Even when I don't want food I just get diet drinks. I'm sure he didn't mean it in a mean way.

I feel you're reading into this way too much.

Lots of people I know drink diet pop, so it was probably his first instinct to ask if she wanted diet or regular. I highly doubt he had any other intent.

Like you should totally break up with someone because they asked if you wanted Diet Coke instead of regular Coke

Way to prove my point in record time, buddy.

There's no fat in coke...

We just call it full fat.

Full Sugar imo, is worse than full fat.