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By whatishappening - 10/12/2016 16:35 - India

Today, my boyfriend finally proposed to me after making me wait for 4 years. Hours after that, my best friend introduced me to this guy who I'm convinced is my soulmate. FML.
I agree, your life sucks 527
You deserved it 178

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"making me wait" and "convinced is my soulmate" made me instantly hate you

He's not your soulmate. You're still overly emotional.

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ama1733 11

How could you think that after you said yes to someone else?

He's not your soulmate. You're still overly emotional.

I hope you said no to that proposal. Don't go into a marriage if you're not 100% sure it's what you want. It's not fair to either of you otherwise.

"making me wait" and "convinced is my soulmate" made me instantly hate you

I think you've got some commitment issues if you snapped from being excited to contemplating a break up/adultery. Get someone that's a neutral party to talk to.

It sounds like you are subconsciously looking for ways to sabotage the relationship that you are unhappy with. Forget about the new guy and evaluate your feelings for your current partner (and talk to him about it in case there's something you guys can do to fix the situation). If your relationship is going to end, it needs to fail on its own merits.

How can he be your soul mate if you just met him? I think maybe you need to rethink the relationship with your fiance if you are so easily distracted by your friend's boyfriend

You just met the guy, that's infatuation and a crush, not a soul mate. You would need to actually be together to determine if you're even compatible, a lot changes when you start a relationship with someone. If this is how you feel though, don't marry your boyfriend. This amount of doubt will only lead to problems and entering a union you're not fully committed to wouldn't be fair.

Better to find out now than after the marriage, or even after the invitations have gone out. I would advise you to break it off with your fiance and evaluate your true feelings for him. Especially since it sounds like you don't believe he is your soul mate.

A little bit more information on how you concluded he was your 'soulmate' would be great..