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By trapped - 20/09/2016 18:25 - Canada - Montr?al

Today, my live in boyfriend has been giving me the silent treatment for the last three days because I asked him to mix a salad with its dressing. When I asked him about it he told me it's my fault because I just make him so damn angry. Seriously. What. the. fuck. FML.
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tash901 31

I don't mean this nastily but I think you might want to get out as soon as possible, he's showing early signs of an abusive partner, if you decide to stay please be careful and remember it's not your fault.

wow.... might be time to look at different living arrangements.

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wow.... might be time to look at different living arrangements.

tash901 31

I don't mean this nastily but I think you might want to get out as soon as possible, he's showing early signs of an abusive partner, if you decide to stay please be careful and remember it's not your fault.

#2 is right, that's how abuse starts. I've been through it twice myself, take it from me you don't want to be there in 6 months time when it's full blown abuse. It may hurt emotionally, but I'd advise getting out ASAP

#2 is spot on. I just got out of a decade-long marriage rife with emotional and verbal abuse, and things like that were common. Don't make the same mistake I did. Get out before it gets worse, because if you stay, it definitely will. I'm sorry you're going through that, but it's not your fault. Best of luck, OP.

tash901 31

To #3 I'm sorry to hear that you've been through this as well but I'm glad to hear that you we're able to get away from it. All the best for your future and I seriously hope OP gets out safely.

Maybe he wanted you to ask him to toss the salad

PrimeStarscream 30

Get away from him now. That is a red flag for emotional abuse and it's not healthy. Tell him to take anger management or you're leaving.

ACCOUNTKILLER 18

I had an ex who was the same- always starting fights over petty things and it was always "my fault" for making him angry. It eventually escalated to him beating the shit out of me. Might not happen for you, but it's a big red flag and emotionally manipulative behavior that shouldn't be coming from a significant other.

Sounds like it's seriously time for a live out ex boyfriend,

Make a salad for a man, it will feed him for a day, teach a man how to make a salad, never have to make it for him again.

Pack his bags and show him the door. Or please explain how this makes anyone in this relationship happy... Think long and hard about whether or not he is worth it... Good luck OP, three damn days, I barely go three hours during the day with my fiancé around without a kiss...