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By breedles - 20/07/2016 10:55 - United States

Today, my boyfriend of over a year informed me that he will be spending his entire winter break this year with his ex-wife out of country. Apparently, the woman who initially tried to sabotage our relationship is now his ideal company for both Christmas and New Years. FML
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I feel like he does not care about your feelings and may have feelings for his ex still. I would find out why he feels the need to go out of country to see her when it is a time for loved ones, i.e. you. I'm sorry he is showing no regard to your feelings.

This is going to be very harsh, but this may be a reason to break up with him. I could understand him wanting to visit her if they had an amicable break up AND you two had her blessing, but it didn't work out that way. They may still have a lingering attraction to one another and she may use that to sabotage your relationship. If he can't be reasoned with, your best course of action is to find someone else.

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Communication is key, you need to talk to him. I don't really see any reason for him to be spending time with his ex-wife, especially over holidays, he should be with you, his current gf, on those days, and also since she tried to ruin your relationship. If it bothers you, let him know, he should be sympathetic to your feelings.

I feel like he does not care about your feelings and may have feelings for his ex still. I would find out why he feels the need to go out of country to see her when it is a time for loved ones, i.e. you. I'm sorry he is showing no regard to your feelings.

This is going to be very harsh, but this may be a reason to break up with him. I could understand him wanting to visit her if they had an amicable break up AND you two had her blessing, but it didn't work out that way. They may still have a lingering attraction to one another and she may use that to sabotage your relationship. If he can't be reasoned with, your best course of action is to find someone else.

Feels like regardless of how you handle this your relationship is over, sorry to say..

I could only understand this if there were children involved otherwise he has no reason to be spending so much time with his X.

**** that guy OP. Dump his wishy washy ass