Big deal

By Like mother like daughter - 24/02/2015 22:25 - United States - Aurora

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Today, I had a talk with my daughter about how I hope her first boyfriend is a special one because 'spending the night' with a boy is a big deal. She replied with a giggle, "Mom, I lost my virginity in a parking lot three years ago!" FML
I agree, your life sucks 42 752
You deserved it 9 595

Same thing different taste

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drayloon 50

Judging by your name OP, I assume this is a family tradition?

tacopandaroo 12

This is why it's important to start talking to your children early.

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tacopandaroo 12

This is why it's important to start talking to your children early.

I had a very open relationship with my mother about sex. When it had come down to the time I lost my virginity, although still pretty young at 14, she knew about it prior to and after the fact. I appreciated having a parent to talk to about these things without feeling like I would be yelled at, or disappoint them.... I feel like this helped me make better Decisions about who i laid down with and how we did it. I ended up not having kids until after I was married, and I feel my mother had a big roll in that. You can't stop them from doing it, so you're better off talking to them about it while they are young and pre-educating them. I know I will with my daughters when the time comes

drayloon 50

Judging by your name OP, I assume this is a family tradition?

At least her name isn't "Monkey See, Monkey Do". That would open a whole new range of shudder-inducing questions in and of itself.

jentrynicole 20

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You must not be around very many preteen girls. They can do anything whilst giggling.

chef4money 12

That leads me to believe that she is young, and was much much younger while having sex in a parking lot.

eyebrowzzz 21

Really? It was plain obvious where this was going.

eyebrowzzz 21

It was obvious the daughter lost her v card in a parking lot? Okay.

Kinda thought she'd say she'd already lost it, didn't expect the parking lot bit.

eyebrowzzz 21

I can't even feel bad for you because you put "like mother like daughter" smh

I'm hoping she's closer to 18 than 12....cause a lot of kids nowadays - not all, just a lot - think it's no big deal :/

It's really not though. As long as they're safe then who cares.

@#109: Would you want your daughter or son having sex when they are around 12? Kids these days think that its nothing special and they would lose it too anyone. I find kids like these just sad. I myself am 17 now so am technically part of that generation but at least I know to make it special and with someone you really love.

I'm a 22 virgin male, thinking of having sex with my wife.... F*** me, right ?!

#120 you do realise that virginity does not actually exist right? It's purely a social construct put in place to measure the value of women/potential wives for centuries back across the majority of cultures. What anyone decided to do with their bodies is there own business, how dare you attempt to shame someone for enjoying sex. Sex is not a sin anymore, we're not living in biblical times smh. If you want to be abstinent that's fine, just don't force your views down other peoples throats; whether you want to admit it or not sex is a primal pleasure and at the end of the day we all end up in a hole in the ground or ashes in a box. Enjoy life while you can and down shit on another person's parade. :)

'Like mother like daughter', glad you're continuing the classiest, total YDI.

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