It takes time to truly love someone in a romantic way. The fact that he followed it up with "at least, this how I think people feel when they say that" shows that he does love you and wanted to wait until he honestly did feel in love with you rather than just saying it like so many others do. You're lucky to have a man who waited rather than a man who says "I love you" just because it seems like the right thing.

#24, LOL! **** indeed :) #54, bitchy much?

That's a good thing! That means you are the first person he's loved!!! Be happy.

To be fair he probably hadn't said it to anyone before... It isn't an insult, it is just a new feeling. This isn't a **** my life at all. You should be happy that he told you, and that you made him feel completely new feelings. Don't be dumb, and get all paranoid, or you're going to ruin a good thing. Take it from a guy who knows.

"Today, I told my girlfriend of over a year and first love my feelings. I was still unsure of whether it was love I felt or just lust. She then proceeded to post on FML about it. FML"

All the people saying "YDI"...She really doesn't deserve it. Anyone who takes a confession of being a first love as a cause for FMLing, really doesn't deserve the lvoe, do they?

Why would that bother you? I agree with everyone else. @185 some people think YDI is the opposite of YLIF, even though that's not the case.

Your boyfriend is Dexter! Woohoo!

Eh. Don't blame him. He's probably never felt love before.

Yeah, i'm not convinced that this is a bad thing at all. I hope you didn't flip out on him or something.