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By but i make different stiffies - / Saturday 5 January 2013 00:33 / United States - Parker
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By  FMLKitten  |  30

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  MaydayParadexx  |  43

I don't understand why women are so embarrassed to carry pads/tampons. I mean sure, you don't have to scream it to the world that you're on your period. But if someone sees a pad in your pocket or whatever, who cares? I don't get it.

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  PincessBoff  |  43

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Some women try to be discreet about such things. I think the bigger problem I would have is that this was the first date. She doesn't know him very well, yet he expects her to trust him not to steal money, credit card, etc from her purse? If he can't trust others, I wouldn't trust him. And the point at which he made a huge deal about her taking her purse to the bathroom should be the end of the date. No dining them dashing, simply pay your half of the bill and leave. You can't build a relationship if there is no trust

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  TomPusslicker  |  43

As a guy, it wouldnt bother me to know that either. Any decent guy who is truly interested in you, should even feel good knowing that you are comfortable explaining that to him...but im guessing you [op] didnt see him as being the right guy for you.

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  bamagrl410  |  43

There are other ways to hide it than just your purse, but it would be really annoying to be on a date with someone so distrustful over something that seems so simple.

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  Quasar55_fml  |  43

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  Proughboy  |  43

True, but they also need to build trust. I mean, it's the first date, you can't expect someone to fully trust someone 100%, especially in a world where trust is so rare.

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  freshberries22  |  43

The bill should be paid by whoever asked who first on the date. If op is in a blind date scenario then the payment of the bill should be discussed at arrival to said restaurant. Assumptions cannot be made when it comes to money; ops date made the decision on who's paying and I don't think op knew it.

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  cloth101  |  43

Guys that have a problem with a lady's monthlies and act as though it's disgusting/unnatural are stupid, but the doesn't mean that we have to flaunt the fact by grabbing a pad/tampon in front of anyone, especially in a restaurant!

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  Catkam623  |  43

I'd just like to point out I firmly believe whoever asks pays because its their treat. On the second date(if their is one) it's the other persons turn.

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  kenyrabit  |  43

To me, it's not that he should of automatically expected to pay the full bill; it's that out of fear of being liable for her half he insisted on access to her personal belongings. I'd be offended by his concern. I agree with #51. "Why should I trust you?! You don't trust me." Also, it's a 1st date. I wouldn't want to tell him I'm on my period, bc that could be the one lasting impression. Sure 2 years in you turn to your husband and announce, "I'll be back, gotta take a dump," But 1st date ettiquette suggests "Excuse me, I need to use the restroom." Strangers aren't entitled to all the details. You need a chance to feel them out. And, this date, sounds undeserving.

By  FMLKitten  |  30

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  lilhellian  |  30

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  jkmartinjk  |  30

It's a first date... Who says they've even met before, nevermind trust each other? Trust is something that is built... However, I'm not saying that the guy wasn't being unreasonable.

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By  perdix  |  37

He probably read that FML where the guy went to the bathroom and never came back. FML is not just a humor site -- it's an online life coach. He probably could have been cooler about it and insist you leave your driver's license, passport, credit card and about fifty bucks to guard against your attempted dine n dash.

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  Vashen  |  37

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  stargirl_95  |  37

66 - an illegally obtained passport can cost up to $10 000. If, say, a terrorist wanted an American passport then they would pay that amount of money to get a stolen/forged one on the black market because they wouldn't be able to get it legally.

By  924halle  |  18

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  Camri_123  |  14

And I'm not TOTALLY sure, but I'm pretty sure, if you're trying to "get ass" you at LEAST pay for dinner. And even then it's a toss up and depends on the type of girl you're going for. It is, after all, a first date.

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