By unsatisfied - United States
  Today, things heated up with the new guy I've been seeing for a couple of weeks, he kept saying things like "I want you so bad" and "it's going to take hours" to the point that I was so hot, I decided to go for it. Apparently he has "a problem sometimes" getting it up. FML
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  matrasveer  |  1

Not a health issue, he doesn't think she is ugly, he was nervous. That's all it is. You should be supportive and understanding (or at least pretend to be) instead putting even more pressure on him by making a big deal out of it. I know it sucks, but you're only making it worse.

I've had this a few times as well in the beginning, but she was very understanding, and now the pressure is off and it's all good.

So give it some time.

  xxrogerthatxx  |  19

It could depend on his lifestyle too, men who don't get active and have much cardiovascular activity may experience a hard time getting it up. The foods you eat, thought process, expectations, a lot of things can affect it so look at yourself as a last resort. Like 63 said, if you weren't attractive, he wouldn't be in that situation with you.

  xxrogerthatxx  |  19

If it becomes an ongoing problem yeah by all means leave him. But after one time? The fuck? You can't open ya mind to the idea that maybe he really does "SOMETIMES" have a problem