By unsatisfied - 01/02/2010 00:20 - United States
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Not a health issue, he doesn't think she is ugly, he was nervous. That's all it is. You should be supportive and understanding (or at least pretend to be) instead putting even more pressure on him by making a big deal out of it. I know it sucks, but you're only making it worse. I've had this a few times as well in the beginning, but she was very understanding, and now the pressure is off and it's all good. So give it some time.
It could depend on his lifestyle too, men who don't get active and have much cardiovascular activity may experience a hard time getting it up. The foods you eat, thought process, expectations, a lot of things can affect it so look at yourself as a last resort. Like 63 said, if you weren't attractive, he wouldn't be in that situation with you.
sorry girl maybe u should move on before u waste anymore of your time cuz it's important to be with a guy that satisfy u sexually