By ksztte - United States
Today, the soon-to-be father of my baby told me he thinks I'm an extremly selfish person, and that I do not love him. His reasoning? I haven't given him a backrub in 2 weeks, sleep too much and have a hormonal problem. Once again, I AM PREGNANT! FML
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  ImaginaryFoe  |  0

It doesn't say they are married and if they were, husbands aren't exchangeable.

OP, I'll be devil's advocate for a moment and say my husband was also insensitive when I was preganant. He thought I was being "over dramatic" by throwing up at all times throughout the entire pregnancy. He is now an amazing father and an above average husband. It's hard to do but remember this is a difficult time for him, too. Show him you still love him and he'll come around.

  ebababa  |  0

tweetbaby - she said it once, tool.

OP: wow, if my bf/husband said that to me, I'd headbutt him before he could even finish the sentence. Force him to watch a video of someone giving birth-- it'll disturb him AND make him realize the shit you're going through and will be going through.

Sure wish guys had to go through the pains of pregnancy and childbirth. Guys shouldn't talk unless they know what you're going through, which they never will, so they should never talk.

  Tripout  |  0

#20 I was gonna point that out . But yes, it doesn't sat that thier even going out or engaged or married OR ANYTHING. Just SOON TO BR FATHER OF OUT CHILD.  What a sad/lame tittle to hold 

  Tripout  |  0

EBABABA........ thnx alot. I'm remembering a video an old teacher showed us on child birth........DAM YOU....EEEEWWWWWWWWWWW...but I do agree with you. GUYS HAVE NO RIGHT TO TALK considering we have no clue what's it's like and since you don't know our bodies. You cannot explain or discribe it to a point where we understand completely.

  Nailbunny  |  4

When I was pregnant, my boyfriend almost threatened to leave me because I had to quit my job for the fact that I was bedridden for the first trimester.

I just don't think it's in their genetic makeup to understand what pregnancy and hormones do to our bodies.

  junker311  |  0

lol my husband was the same. saying I was being dramatic for throwing up all the time ( which lasted 8 1/2 months may I add ) and not being able to sleep... but he is an amazing father now :) don't know the whole story but you could be one of those annoying pregnant women who always use it as an excuse. give your baby daddy a back massage, it won't kill you. I gave mine one while I was in labor. He was frantic so it calmed him down :)

  suppressed08  |  2


kick your soon-to-be-childs-soon-to-be-fathers arse with loads of pregnancy facts from a doctor.

get him to backrub you aswell (the 'you scratch my back, I'll scratch yours').

and yeah sure, if we could, I'd imagine a few guys would try dealing with the pain of childbirth if we get our child out of it...


I'm pregnant too! and my fiancé is the same way but it takes him a while to understand. we don't mean to be bitchy but sometimes us pregnant women can't help it but in the end I always say I'm sorry! plus I give him backrubs I don't see why you don't!! he is dealing with your pregnancy so give him what you can!! jeeze OP!!

  xxAdriixx  |  0

That 'man' was not and is not a man at all. SHE is an incomplete transgendered FEMALE. She's basically just a chick without tits and with facial hair. She still has all her female parts. -.-
And she actually got pregnant -after-... basically, she just wanted attention. Poor kids (she has two) are going to be so fucked up..

  TempestJones  |  0

On one hand, I would say after you give me a backrub, I will give you one to the soon to be father... pregnancy is a hard ordeal that no man will fully understand... On the other hand you can't completely neglect your partner, no matter how tired you are. There's no reason NOT to give him a backrub, or to be cuddly and stuff... I would just tell him it's give and take... Remember, they may not be going through the pain that we women go through, but they are going through stuff too.

  asianwolf  |  2

hey at least your husband isn't the husband that wouldn't help the women with a bursted appendix because he was playing xbox.

but your life is still fucked.

  MrsUchiha  |  0

You would be a bitch too if you were pregnant. Puking every morning, swollen ankles, gaining weight, your baby kicking you in the kidneys at 4 am which causes you to jolt awake, and so much more. Let's not forget the birth..

  lilai1396  |  0

so HE wants a backrub
he does realize that with pregnancy your carrying another life?
and one that hurts all your joints

tell him to shut the hell up and go to a spa

  amazinggbaby  |  2

She wasn't being a bitch she was throwing up and didn't give him backrubs and women who are pregnant have a hard time controlling how they act because of the hormones. You'll realize it when you either get pregnant or get a girl pregnant (I'm not sure if your a guy or girl.)

  everajade  |  0

#153 dude she was in love with a woman who couldn't get pregnant so the man who was really a woman got pregnant instead so that they could have kids. not to get attention.

  coolster56  |  0

it still could be or they could have been dating for like 7 years it is always better to have a baby with a boyfriend of 7 years or your husband of 2 months

  TheAbsentOne  |  0

Her "To do" list for today:
1. Get up.
2. Go to FML.
3. Complain on FML.
4. Complain more.
5. Play WoW.
6. Attempt to fix relationship.
7. Realize you can't.
8. Post another FML.
And the cycle repeats..

  pendulum2012  |  0

I think it's funny that people who are commenting are saying that writing an FML means you are on this website all day. Reading all the FML's and commenting takes more time out of your day. #13 and #23 are probably trying to feel better about themselves by saying that someone else is here too much.