By Anonymous - 20/05/2016 19:38 - United States - San Antonio
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Tell her to go flippity flappity f**k herself and that she could do that in her marriage not yours
You should be able to stand up to her, but honestly.. Even if you can stand up to her, if your fiancé can't I honestly would be rethinking the marriage a lot. If you don't have his support, I doubt she'll back off. She might not either way, but I really doubt she would without her son stand up to her. And fighting against her your whole marriage by yourself would be exhausting and extremely stressful. He needs to not only be able to support you in you standing up, he needs to stand right next to you.
Yeah, this should be dealt with before anything else happens. My grandma on my dads side did that shit and the only reason she backed off was because my dad refuses to contact her for years and she was busy dealing with two of my meth addicted uncles. Trust me, if you can't get her to back off, it's all down hill from here.
Awww she cares so much about you that she wants to lift all your burdens off you, including taking her son's virginity! How touching.
Talk to your fiancé about it, she have no right to do that, so put on your wedding panties, stand up to her and plan the wedding without her approval, she should keep her big nose out of YOUR wedding... Congrats on the wedding btw, I hope you and your spouse will have a wonderful time. :3