By unsuspcted - 17/11/2009 22:58 - United States
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#78, just because you felt you were ready to be married, it doesn't mean that the OP is, or his girlfriend. People need time, especially someone who has lost a spouse, which seems to be the case here. If it was death, you want to make sure all of those demons are gone before you hitch up again, but if it was divorce, it may take time to allow yourself to trust someone that much again.
Well, he doesn't mind having her as a step mum, which is good since many kids resent their parents getting remarried.