By Nikki - 27/07/2012 13:45 - United States - Newark
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I'm sorry what..? Just because someone refuses to have sex with you, they don't deserve you? With what logic did you use for that statement? Seriously, kids these days. Mature up a bit. A person can be attracted to their personality. Or somtimes, people are just plain bad at sex. You don't know. However sex is not needed as much to have a relationship.
Am I the only one who thinks the boyfriend could've been joking as well? It's not unreasonable to assume that he knew OP was joking, and was just playing along. My husband and I go back and forth like that sometimes, too. However I do agree if he was NOT kidding, then there needs to be a discussion about the relationship. Jumping straight to a break up is a bit irrational, though. If they care enough about each other to live together, then they should attempt to fix their problems instead of just giving up.
1, I believe there is way more to this FML than we are aware of (insert obvious "Duh!" here). My line of thinking is: maybe the boyfriend isn't happy in his relationship, therefore gets depressed, goes to work miserable and his work rapidly declines, so much that he is noticed and terminated. So when his girlfriend said there would be no sex, he was probably relieved because now it will be easier to talk about how he hasn't been happy with her for a while now. (I know this is a big assumption but I've seen this happen all the time. However, usually people lose their friends, not jobs.)
I don't know; I always tend to find that it's somewhat acceptable for a woman to say this to a guy, but when the situation is reversed the guy is a douche? He was probably hoping for some sort of support due to his job loss, not the denial of sex and he might have been a bit annoyed about it- maybe he didn't know his girlfriend was joking. They don't need to split up, they need to talk.
6 A vagina that looks like Predator? Hmmmm you know a little too much about predator vaginas. Could it be that your vagina looks like a Predator? I mean that could be the only way you would know! Gross girl! You could probably save your money up and get a vaginal rejuvenation done-- and quick! Lol
31) One: Obviously, you're the type of person who will dump somebody in a hot second just because of sex. I personally know a woman who, after having 4 kids, cannot have sex without suffering immense pain. And yet, she and her husband are still together just because they love each other. They've been together for 40 years. Two: Watch who you're calling an idiot/jackass, you hypocrite.
It said he lost his job. For all we know, he could have had a job with a company that went out of business. We also don't know the boyfriend. He could have picked up on her humor and made a joke right back. There also has been relationships in history that haven't been all about sex and even some where sex was even present. Just because a guy doesn't want to have sex doesn't mean any bad. No one bats an eyelash when a girl loves a guy but doesn't want to have sex with him. From what I've seen, a relationship that's just about sex usually means either one or both partners has some insecurity flaw. With those four reasons, there's so reason for you comment or your replies on other peoples' comments.
If he hates having sex with you that much, he doesn't deserve you.
It's not like he's forced to have sex with you.