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If you took the money then she'd hate you for life :) Thats how girls are she expects you not to take the money.

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Has anyone wondered what caused OP's girlfriend to be this way in the first place? There could have been a very unfortunate event occur in her past that caused psychological damage causing her to hate it...

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Or she just couldnt be bothered? Sometimes when I have a bad day at work Or just in general, i hate the thought of sex.

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*shiver* Oh, I'm really glad I'm not a smart woman like you, who will keep your boyfriend from going behind your back by letting him have meaningless sex with others. I demand loyalty from my partner. If I could not satisfy him enough and/or he would need more than one woman, our relationship would be doomed anyway.

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48- you'll let your boyfriend have meaningless sex with someone else? Am I they only here who values commitment, why not try to spice things up with one another instead?

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I agree with you. That does show a lack of commitment if he did take her up on it. I wouldn't even be tempted to do so if I was put in that predicament, I am 110% loyal to my girl and plan to keep it like that. On another note, if she is against the act of sex, talk to her about it, chances are she had a bad experience with it when she was younger, quite possibly a family member or someone close to the family had done the unmentionable? There is usually a reason behind everything.. If there is

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You're all missing the fact that in no way are strippers and prostitutes the same. 90% of strippers won't allow you to touch them, let alone have sex with them.

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Yeah but 48 said they would let their boyfriend have meaningless sex she said nothing about strippers or prostitutes, that was what I was commenting on.

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I'm just commenting on most people's general idea that a stripper will have sex with you. People are getting all worked up about how OP would actually go through with it. Going to a stripclub doesn't make you unfaithful in any way.

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I think it's more of the girls are getting worked up because of some of the comments on here then the FML itself.

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"Going to a stripclub doesn't make you unfaithful in any way." Pflrbl, going to a stripclub doesn't fit in my definition of loyalty. I find looking at how (probably) hot women undress themself while dancing sensually over your lap pretty unfaithful, aye.

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Ok morons. How the hell does going to a strip club constitute cheating? By your conclusions, going to a strip club, which is entirely voyeuristic would have the same ramifications as if your husband/boyfriend was sitting in front of the tv watching Cinemax. Grow up people. It is entertainment. Nothing more, nothing less.

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In what way does looking at a partially dressed girl (I say partially dressed because fully nude clubs are far more uncommon) constitute cheating/unfaithfulness? I suppose you could say it is wrong if your girl is throwing herself at you, but you turn to a stripper instead. However, in OP's situation, or a situation where you are in a relationship and your girlfriend is sexually uninterested for the time being, going to a stripclub and looking at a girl dance with her top off does not in any way

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Jumber10 I take option #2 as close to possible. It really made me laugh imaging dildos in holes I've not even imagined lying somewhere in Honduras... LoL

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80 a stripper is usually trying to pay her way through college. Well a prostitute is someone who will show you to jail and a nice warm STD. *The More You Know* :D

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Indeed, a stripper is completely different to a prostitute. If you try to touch a stripper a burly man will come over, tear your arm off and beat you with the soggy end (or so I have heard).

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Yeah Strippers just take over the clothes while dancing Prostitutes you have sex with. And are you sure she wasnt being sarcastic? "Id rather give you money for a stripper"

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Probably not cause strippers are for teasing u & prostitutes are for sex (and three somes) I stripper would most likely hate u if u suggested any kind of sex like that,

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It depends on where you get a stripper or what club you go to! I know some clubs around where I live have girls who are willing to make some extra cash in the back room if you're willing. That's not my thing, but whatever floats your boat!

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just because she didn't want sex, once? you have a lot to learn in a relationship if you assume a girl will always have sex with you when you want it

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'just because she didn't want sex, once?' Not wanting sex once in a while is definitely normal, but sending your boyfriend to the strippers so that they can pleasure him (and that's not even true: stripper =/= prostitute) while that's your 'job'? Really, how fucked-up is that? What's the next step, sending him to her best friend so she can have sex with him? If your girlfriend hates the idea of sex that much, there is something incredibly wrong. You should talk to her instead of accepting

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Some people are asexual, or others have been sexually abused, which can change their opinion of sex. I was abused, and I despise sex now.

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Really? Her "job" is to pleasure him? Excuse me? It's not her "job" to do anything for him. Lots of relationships work without sex being involved. Maybe she wants to wait til marriage? Or her libido has decreased due to depression, being on the pill, medication, or she could even be in her first trimester of pregnancy. We don't know what the circumstances are. The stripper thing is weird, I'll admit, but maybe it's because she feels bad that she can't find it in herself to do

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I actually agree with 61 for the most part. Biggest question is, if OP's girlfriend hates sex so much, why is he still with her? Thats a such sign of irreconcilable incompatibility, and if she's been sexually abused, then the possibility of a normal and healthy relationship diminishes. And it's not OP's responsibility to stay with her because he feels like he has to 'help' her. I've personally dated several girls who were victims of sexual abuse, and it's rough. Either way, there are asexua

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