That's when you say I'd like a tall glass of you

Even a comment like this could make OP go into a relapse. You clearly should never be friends with a recovering person of anything, nor be a counselor for recovering people.

If she knows you are a recovering alcoholic and still comes to your house drunk then you need too find someone better then that.

Agreed. I would rarely say this, but OP, you should really dump her. she obviously doesn't care about your recovery if she's still going to drink. If she really loved you, she would understand that drinking just isn't okay when your significant other is a recovering alcoholic. You could cause them to relapse.

She still does have a right to drink, but getting as drunk as she did and then coming to see you is completely irresponsible and inconsiderate. If not just flat out dumping her, talk to her about how what she did was wrong and let her know the problems you have with it.

I don't believe she has to give up drinking because he's a recovering alcoholic, but she definitely shouldn't rub it in his face like that.

At least you're staying away from the booze! Talk to her about it and maybe she'll reconsider.

She sounds like a douche if he's in recovery and she isn't respecting that. I wouldn't give her the option to reconsider.

That is true, but I believe everyone deserves a second chance. Besides, this is the first time she's done that from what OP has told us

If she knows youre recovering, then shes a bad girlfriend. She shouldnt have been pissed because of that.

She was drunk, and probably forgot.

Don't think that's something you forget...

then she. probably should have drunk anything in the first place

Although its not justifiable, short term memory basically becomes non-existent. And long-term memory get dazed, and garbled.

You need a better girlfriend, dude.

Sounds like she isn't very thoughtful or supportive of your recovery. Sometimes you have to let go of people when you recover from an addiction and if drinking was a big part of your relationship and/or her lifestyle then you may have to have a talk then make a decision. No one is more important than your health and sobriety. Good luck OP.

So you're the recovering alcoholic and she is the current or starting alcoholic? If no then maybe she should consider brushing her teeth and showering before offering you sex. Sex is for both people to enjoy not just one.

What makes you think she's an alcoholic? She came home drunk one time. If this happened a lot, I'm sure that would have been part of the post. There's plenty in between "never drinking at all" and "starting alcoholic."

As a friend of Bill myself, this really pisses me off. I've straight up refused to hook up with someone because of this crap.

who's Bill?

#12: http://www.friendofbills.com/

I believe he refers to that.

Bill is who started AA. a friend of Bill would be a member of AA.

i think you need to find someone better OP

Her lost, not yours!