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By RUFckingSrs - / Tuesday 22 December 2015 02:42 / United States - San Francisco
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  ThatOneChick856  |  35

I started off thinking the same thing. A few of my groups of friends have that "one person" who no one really likes/gets along with, but we still invite them places and let them hang out with us because they're not awful people and we'd feel bad abandoning them.

But this sort of behavior is completely unacceptable. It's rude, inconsiderate, and one of those instances where I think it's perfectly okay to tell this girl "listen, no one in this group likes you" and to very bluntly explain why. Not everyone is deserving of unconditional kindness/ exceptions to you being truthful and this girl has passed that limit.

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  radiocaf  |  29

Exactly. How do you get forced into driving someone? How do you let her sit down at the table if she isn't invited or wanted? How do you let her take food off of your plate without doing something about it after the second, if not the first, time? There's a lot of inconsistencies in this, either that or you and your friends are pushovers.

By  jttorkildson  |  20

She sounds awful. I think you should just be upfront with her and tell her that she's upsetting you and that you don't want to hang out with her if she's going to be disrespectful.

By  LadyAthena  |  20

I decided on YDI because all you have to do is open your mouth and say "this event does not include you". Nobody can force you to drive them and pay for them. She didn't have a gun so obviously none of you was ballsy enough to tell her to go away.