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Sounds like an out to me. She obliviously didn't want to get married too badly and used this as an excuse I think...unless y'all were supposed to be saving "it" for each other. If it wasn't this that made her call it off or leave it would have been something else. And just think of it this way... She probably saved you a ton of money between no wedding and having to hiring a divorce lawyer later on down the road and losing half of your shit!

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24. If she really didn't want to get married, she should have just said no when he proposed, instead of leading him on and breaking his heart.

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Not true 28, some women like the thought of being engaged, but never take the full step and get married. I don't know what it is, but I've seen it quite a bit!... And with a big shiny rock blinding your sight it's even harder to say no right then!

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Some people think they are ready to take the plunge, but the closer they get and the more 'real' it becomes, they discover they aren't.

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77 has a point. Even though calling off the wedding may have been an overreaction, if OP had told the fiancee that he was a virgin and was going to wait until after marriage for her, finding out this wasn't the truth from another source could be very disappointing.

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#1- That doesn't make her crazy at all! Maybe she's religious and wants someone who remained abstinent until marriage!

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There's clearly MUCH more to this FML than meets the eye. Guesses: 1) the woman is her mum, 2) the woman is her sister, 3) OP pretended to be a virgin, 4) the woman is someone OP had denied sleeping with. Come on OP, confess the rest.

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Yes, religion has a way of fucking these things up...I'm just saying, and thumb me down for telling the truth...

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#109 Yes, because clearly the man has to have done something wrong for the woman to do something bad.

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sounds like she was just looking for an excuse. sorry op. at least you found out before you got married. hope you can get back any money that was spent on it.

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Op may be leaving out the fact that the person he slept with was someone close to his fiancée, like her BFF or sister

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I have no clue why people are clicking you deserve it.... I'm sorry op but it sounds like your fiancé had cold feet and was just using this as an excuse to call off the wedding.

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I didn't click either but I am wondering why the fiancée didn't know he had another relationships prior? Not explicit details of it but at least knowing there were others (or one other in this case).

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#52 are the fiancé because alot of people would disagree with you. The past is the past as long as it didn't happen during the relationship I don't see why you would have to leave someone.

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It's a fairly important detail if your fiance has slept with other people before. Period. Even if it isn't to a couple, OP should have known that about the woman he was going to marry. Either way, OP didn't realize this, and his ignorance cost him a fiance.

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#111 You're an idiot. Who he slept with in a past relationship is of absolutely no consequence to the current one, and unless he *wants* to share those details, they're none of the fiancée's business. Fiancée was either being extremely paranoid or just looking for an excuse to get out of marrying him.

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After 3 years you'd think they already had talked about that....I think (in my opinion) that's she's a little nuts

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