By Anonymous - 16/12/2009 19:28 - United States
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haha love it least he likes u enough to cheat on his wife with you!
Are you serious #199? Both him and his parents are blatantly racist. Let's call this what it is, not accepting interracial relationships is racist, whether the reason is cultural or otherwise. He'd also rather sacrifice his and his gf's happiness in favour of his parents' outdated and archaic traditions, he puts his parents' idiocy over his gf. That's just plain disrespectful to her, some parents' wishes don't deserve respect. He also sees no problem corrupting his marriage and telling his gf she's only good enough for sex and being the side chick. This guy not only has no respect for his current gf, he has no respect for women or relationships in general.
His parents should approve of him being happy above all else. If you make him happy, then they need to respect that. But do you really want someone who would be willing to cheat, because if he could do that to someone else, he could also do it to you.
All of my relationships were interracial, and only in one of them, his grandmother didn't approve. He is a Japanese national, and in America on a student visa. So his grandmother was in Japan and still traditional. When he told me how his grandmother felt, I cried. Because she had treated me so well and nicely so I truly had no idea. But REGARDLESS, he wanted to stay with me thick and thin. He was deeply in love and wouldn't let anything get in his way. With your guy behaving the way he is, trust me, he's not the one for you. Either he's a lowlife, or his family is extremely important to him. Regardless, you do not need him.
Oh, and I forgot to add in my original comment that I am fluent in Japanese and have been to Japan several times, one of which I met his family for the first time. Who were amazingly loving and kind to me. While in Japan, that's when my ex-boyfriend told me how his grandmother felt.
tell me y the same thing happened to me,im mexican and the part of mexico im from has alot of asian immigrants and i hooked up japanese girl who spoke perfect spanish so i tried to speak some japansese(mainly words i hear on anime) and her grandpappy does not approve of me bcuz of the whole cartel thing thats goin on,he thinks ima kill her or somthim