By Leah - 24/06/2011 05:11 - United States

Today, my boss gave me a speech about my "motivation issues". I've been working for him for 2 months, the commissions I've made for him paid off his bills, so what are my motivation issues? I turned down his offer of a date. I have a boyfriend. He keeps asking. FML
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Well thats clearly sexual harassment, no matter where you are in the US. Get a lawyer.

What's with all the horny bosses these days?!


cookies61889 15

go for it and get a raise (:

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cookies61889 15

I think going on the date will ruin the chance to sue

You mean the boss would get a 'raise' alright.

MissBunnyWillEat 11

I read this thinking that OP was a guy... I'm not sure why.

Quit! Or file foe sexual harassement

speech? or spanking with a tasseled whip while he calls you phil

yes Phil, yes. keep rejecting me, it only makes me hotter

oh Phil I told you I'd give you a raise if you gave me a 'raise'

Haha I get it "raise" like boner ahooh. But seriosuly OP needs to let her boss stuff his paperwork in her filing cabinet so he can get a pay raise and flip dat bitch ova and say he raped her then baddabing baddabang she sues him, gets a huge settlement and goes on maiden voyage with a whole bunch more seamen and live happily ever after, boom.

What's with all the horny bosses these days?!

cookies61889 15

lol that's true so many stories about bosses wanting to date their workers

I read somewhere that in USA 20% of women have had an affaire with their male boss...

ReptarRAWR23 0

That's that's false, its 25% haha jp.

ReptarRAWR23 0

But for real why do these guys all have hard ons for their employs?

monnanon 13

its called power. Ugly ass bosses think they can attract any young bit of stuff in the office with it

bosses think the worker will have to say yes because the worker thinks if they say no, they'll get fired, that's probably why someone said 25% of workers date their bosses. thats so stupid though haha

uhm, worst case scenario you get a nice night out. you've made it clear, he still keeps asking. that or be fired because it sounds like that's where you're going. your call.

#4 - So you're saying she should choose between cheating on her boyfriend with her boss and being wrongfully terminated for not submitting to his sexual advances as his subordinate?

didn't say have sex with him, not at all. but a simple dinner could clear the tension. and if the op let her man know what's going on.

So you're saying that going on a date with your boss when you have a boyfriend isn't cheating, and that going out on a date with your boss to appease him because you're afraid of getting fired is a good way to "clear things up?" Then, you want her to tell her boyfriend "I don't really want to date my boss, but it will make him happy and save my job." You expect him not to say something like "Ok, and when your boss thinks he's getting somewhere and wants to sleep with you, will you just make him happy and save your job then?" I don't need you to respond, it's clear what you'd do in her shoes to solve the problem.

Well thats clearly sexual harassment, no matter where you are in the US. Get a lawyer.

He only wants to buy you one drink. Come on!? One drink.... Only one!!!

wolfshadow 4

"one drink turned into three or for and then the lady got into his car, and they drove away some place real far" Date Rape - Sublime. seems appropriate for this comment.

ReptarRAWR23 0

It's not rape if she likes it!

ReptarRAWR23 0

It's not rape If she likes it!

I would explain by stating that you make it a policy: never date people from work; wether you currently have a boyfriend or not. let him know that you feel dating people you work with is not something that you are comfortable with, boss or not. good luck OP

That's sound advice until he misunderstands and fires her to solve that unfortunate obstacle.

ReptarRAWR23 0

If he fired she could sue like other lady.

greekamericanpri 2

he'll fire her so he can go out with her if she does that

jobsman99 0

that is too bad. he should stop acting like a pig and treat you right.

ive read alot of FMLs like diz 1 and on most of dem when dey declined a date......dey got fired (0_0) sue him for harrasment b4 he fires u:P

Is it really that hard to type correctly?

Poser. quit trying to be a gangster and spell stuff the way you actually say it. no one here thinks you really talk like 'dat.' idiot.