By Anonymous
Today, I woke up to a note on my nightstand from my fiancée, along with the ring I proposed to her with yesterday, which stated that not only was she not ready to be married, but she’d been planning to end things before I “blindsided" her. FML
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By  RichardPencil  |  29

I hope you mean EX-fiancée!

*reads rest of story*

Um, I guess you do. I don’t know anything about her, but feel free to select from “you dodged a bullet” or “Aw, I’m sorry.”

  Rabite  |  28

Well she didn't expect him proposing to her either.
Especially when there had to be signs that the relationship wasn't going that well if she was close to breaking up with him.

By  melisssa87  |  30

Well if she has been planning to leave you why did she accept the ring at the first place, I guess it’s easier to sneak out while you are sleeping instead of having balls. Sorry to hear by the way and one day it will pass

  withered  |  30

She probably felt pressured to accept it. Must be very hard to say no when someone proposes to you when you don't expect it. They're all excited and expect your "yes" but you know you're about to crush them because that is not what you want. Not to mention you're put on the spot and an answer is expected immediately. She didn't end it in the best way but at least she ended it and they can both move on.

  chyiochan  |  31

Definitely probably put on the spot, since she was planning on saying no. What if they were in front of a lot of people? What if she didn't want to publicly humiliate him? What if OP has anger issues and this was the only way for her to get away? We don't know the entire story, and I honestly don't think OP and GF were making plans about marriage in the first place if she was going to break it off with him!

By  withered  |  30

Getting married is a decision you AND your partner should make. You should talk to your partner about marriage to see IF and WHEN you both think you should get married. You don't just propose out of the blue just because YOU want to get married without ever even mentioning marriage to your partner. That is very thoughtless, tactless and disregarding of your partner's feelings/opinion. And if you don't bother to ask what their thought about marriage is before you propose then you should realize that no is a chance. YDI for not talking with your partner about it and for trying to use marriage as a patch for your ending relationship. I actually feel sorry for her. She obviously felt pressured into saying yes.

By  Rabite  |  28

F*** her life.
I hope you don't go around talking trash about her now and paint her as the bad guy here. Maybe you can talk with her about it and get some closure after things cooled off a while.