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By Manila4thewin - / Friday 1 March 2019 00:00 / New Zealand - Whakatane
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By  colderthanyou  |  14

If I saw the shifty start of a message from another woman to my husband, you bet your ass I’d open it. If I could see the start of a message that looked like nothing, I’d leave it. She wasn’t deliberately snooping, maybe he shouldn’t give her his phone if he doesn’t want that stuff seen 🤷🏼‍♀️
Also, don’t be a loser and cheat on your significant other.

By  melisssa87  |  30

Well you guys do have to at least try to talk to each other, I mean you have a newborn and you can’t really use him yet to tell each other to pass the salt

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By  davidfong  |  14

I’m going to assume that he hasn’t cheated on you before.
I think your in the wrong because you were snooping threw is phone when you should have just been send yourself the photos you want. You guys have a kid you should be at the level where you should trust each other. I think because you broke that trust is why he mad. Because those message he got could just be spam messages.

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  colderthanyou  |  14

If I saw the shifty start of a message from another woman to my husband, you bet your ass I’d open it. If I could see the start of a message that looked like nothing, I’d leave it. She wasn’t deliberately snooping, maybe he shouldn’t give her his phone if he doesn’t want that stuff seen 🤷🏼‍♀️
Also, don’t be a loser and cheat on your significant other.

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  davidfong  |  14

I don’t agree with cheating on someone. Better off just straight up telling them you don’t love them.
But like I said some of those could be spam and sometimes if you open spam they come with a virus.
But I get what your saying if it look like an actual person I might be tempted to open it also

By  melisssa87  |  30

Well you guys do have to at least try to talk to each other, I mean you have a newborn and you can’t really use him yet to tell each other to pass the salt

By  Angélique Chantal  |  19

Never knew my photoalbum was located in messenger!

Why snoop? What makes you so insecure? So what if he didn’t say no. That doesn’t mean he actually cheated and he has every right to be mad at you now.

By  Burle  |  16

Something similar happened to a friend of mine, he found messages on his girlfriend's phone from a guy and confronted her about them. Turns out she deliberately put them there as a test to see if he trusted her enough to not look through her phone. I don't agree with what either of them did as he was looking through her phone and she was playing games, bottom line though is relationships are built on trust. If you see messages like that, you have to trust your partner to do the right thing and say no

By  raven_of_azarath  |  28

For those of you saying OP was snooping, maybe she was just scrolling through the pictures and he got a notification saying something like “Hey sexy” and clicked on it. Maybe OP wasn’t deliberately looking around. If I was using my SO’s phone and I saw that, I can’t say I would just ignore it.

By  TxKitten79  |  8

I'm so sorry. Maybe try marriage counseling. If he hasn't actually cheated yet you two have a chance to fix this. It won't be easy, but it's possible if you both want it. If he isn't willing to admit what he did (or was planning on doing) was wrong, and if he isnt willing to do counseling then I strongly suggest taking to a divorce attorney. and make sure to send copies of those messages to yourself as proof

By  tounces7  |  25

You know you could probably get all the warning signs that you're with a cheater before you marry and have kids with them just by reading through all the FMLs.

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