By bumblebee - 14/09/2009 21:30 - United Kingdom
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I would never speak to my parents again. This is exactly why I don't tell them if I'm going on a date. It's embarrassing and the last thing I want them to do is talk to my date or follow me there. They would do it to embarrass me on purpose too. FYL. They should respect your privacy. If you're old enough to be dating, they need to understand that you don't want them to hold your hand every step of the way. Or at all for that matter.
This is obviously such a childish comment. Any sensible person will know that loving parents will be concerned about their children. They may be just overly concerned and you only need to speak to them, let them know whats going on, reassure them that you will protect yourself. Nobody is a good judge of character. And nobody is ever too old to be in danger. Why would your parents be out to embaress you, what do they gain from it? What do they even gain by having you as their child? You milked them out for money, gifts, education, a home, then curse, swear and insult them. To top it all, you will leave home when you feel like you are all grown up and want freedom, leave your parents to age and rot on their own. I see no love. What a joke.
Yeah, well actually. My parents HAVE done it on purpose. Especially my father. Just because he's an adult doesn't mean he grew up. He even said that he likes embarrassing me because it's fun when I get pissed off. Maybe it's just me, but I don't think every girl's dream life consists of their fathers picking them up and holding them upside down, then dropping them, then running away... in front of their friends in the middle of the mall on their birthday. And I wouldn't really not talk to them. That's just an over-used saying when you're a teenager.
oh that's horrible! you should talk to them about this! its disrespectful and even though this sounds weird but they probably don't trust them self that's why they did that they don't trust they taught you well enough. be respectful and tell them "you taught me better"