My ex convinced me to stay with him. I dealt with it another 2 months and was miserable the entire time. not a good idea.

Someone able to do that at all would be long past the point of staying together or putting in the effort of seeing it through. If you have enough respect for someone else you'd sit down and talk about it rather than just over the phone then abandoning them in their own thoughts.

I'm not a fan of break up sex. I once had an ex break down and start crying "you were gonna be my wife" while he was thrusting. And he was the one who broke up with me.

I never really understood the reasoning for break up sex.,. what is it

yeah same here I'd get depressed while trying to dowit

Why? People are allowed to end relationships. It doesn't make them a bad person.

My thoughts exactly #18. OP could be an awful person for all we know. We know nothing of their relationship.

Didn't think of that. Oops. Sorry my thumbs have a mind of their own. :P

It makes them a bad person if they do it via phone rather than face to face! That said, it sounds like a phone conversation would be way less awkward than having your boyfriend walk in on you 'surprising' him just to break up with you.

Better a phone call rather than a text or post-it note style. Or my personal favorite cowardly way out, Facebook...