Today, I told my grandma my boyfriend had cheated on me. She told me that it was my fault for not straightening my hair, and for gaining a few pounds. FML
He didn't break up with her, he cheated on her, which is much worse.
I'm sorry OP, cheating is always the cheater's fault, and your granny should have been a little more sensitive to your feelings.
My grandma is quite fun really. If I'm being too uptight she likes to ask when's the last time I've gotten action. haha. this coming from a hardcore Christian who watches my weight like a hawk.
Grandmas should be spoiling their grandkids rotten and having fun with them, not giving cruel and unnecessary criticism. I can't imagine either of my grandmas saying or doing something something like this to me
My grandma used to always comment on everyone's weight and they were pretty harsh comments. She even a couple times told us grandkids that we looked like shit. (ex if we were tired or sick) Some people have absolutely no filter.
My cousin is allergic to nuts, so her grandma refers to her as "mentally retarded" and tells her that she's never going to get married. Gotta love old people *sarcasm*
Eh your grandma comes from an era where women sought perfection because they were told it was what was demanded. Just thank heaven you were born in a society that has an inkling more about equality :/